Happy_Go_Lucky_Heb

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Give it some time for now, and depending on how long they've been apart I wouldn't move in too fast or the roomate's not going to understand. Plus this roomate this with you, I wouldn't try and get into a conflict with someone I live with.

Heb

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Woah, I suppose your gonna have to figure it out, do you love him for who he is or not girl? You shouldn't change people like that nor force them, one day they might see something and change themselves. If you love him so much then you'll accept the downsides of him...it shouldn't be all about what you want.

He must be devastated, he wants to do so much for you...all but change or fully chnge (if he's trying) and you just slam it at his face.

I might be wrong but that's what it feels like from here. Take some time out, figure out wether you really need him or not or you'll just end up going around circles again.

Heb

Hey J_82

Personally lol i think absense makes the heart want to cheat. W/o that special someone around all the time, constantly reminding you of how lucky you are, its natural for us to think about and check out other people. But yea, that's just what I think.

No, I've never cheated in my life.

Heb

Hey Joe, Heb here.

Well if you don't have problems getting girls then why are u worried about it Joe? lol are you gettin too many Joe, CHICKS MAN - JOE!

o yea, ur cheeks would be red right about now! - busted

No wonder you get attention when you go clubbin, your special cheeks glow and all the girls see your face, in another words, you'd stand out man.

On a side note, I think overall yea, some girls would find your cheeks unattractive but so what? Everyone has unattractive qualities and once someone gets to know you, they'll see through your cheeks and find a great person within you, that's whats most important Joe. Don't change who you are, there are things about me that I'm not happy with but I won't change because its a part of me. You have to hang in there and be proud of yourself Joe, a little red face problem won't change your life in a mind blowing way.

If you're worried about never finding someone then honestly, don't worry. Whoever it is will like you for ur personality because that's what matters most, looks change, people get old, get in accidents etc etc, but the personality will be forever the same and THAT's what makes people love one another more.

If you're still concerned, go see a specialist and seek their guidance.

Heb

Well I'm a guy and the thing with that is that the sperm load won't be as high nor strong coming out if we were to do that.

Heb

You should say it when it feels right. My gf said it b4 me and I kept it till I felt right. I think it was 2-3 months before I got there.

Heb

lol Stop playing games. It's obvious you both like each other and you both know it! Just make him tell you first if you don't wanna say, this is gonna come up again soon.

Heb

Fight for your love man. If you want her, go get her. Give it all you can and then give up and never go back again. Just remember, there's other people out there and for a 16 y.o, she won't be the only one.

Heb

Like I always say, just be happy with yourself. If you're really not bi-sexual or have thoughts then figure it out. Your family and friends will eventually just accept you.

Don't be stupid, suicide is crazy.

Heb

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Well I've never..actually yea I have had thoughts about my sexuality before but there's nothing wrong with beng bi-sexual...actually horny guys really like that sorta stuff.

Just be happy with yourself what ever happens, that's whats most important.

Heb

lol I was kinda shocked when I read Ash's response. For a second I actually thought he meant yes the age for dating is 14! But then he mentions later on.

In case anyone was wondering, legal age for sex is 16 here but hey, no one ever gets caught...

Heb

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I've never cheated but got close plenty of times (mutual fault) and the thought does cross my mind everynow and then but I don't think I'll ever do it, it won't feel right and I'll be in so much guilt just thinking about it.

Heb

lol it's not a bad idea. So what if its like something outta a chickflick? aren't they still cool to experience? I think it'd b great if some chick I'm close to just came up and pulled a stunt like that outta nowhere!

Chances are though that she's not going to do that old skool. If she had the guts for that sorta stuff, she wouldn't be here asking everyone what to do.

The way I figure is, don't drop clues, they're like games. Just tell him straight or make it so obvious that he can't look away. What do you have to loose anyway? you only have a month of skool left.

Heb

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Well it's not his fault for being insecure, he's letting you do it so he's not just being selfish. Major chances are that he just feels a lot for you and that he doesn't want to loose you because of whatever he feels for you and that's why. When you like someone heaps, the thought of loosing them is overwhelming.

Any guy you get close to he'll feel jealous, its natural. And when you say "nothing will ever happen to us" you'll never know and a lotta things happen when they least expected to.

You can reassure him, tell him what you feel. When you're with the other guy, call him out or something and talk to him infront of the gay dude like you're totally into him and that he shouldn't worry about things etc etc.

Heb

Hey ChesterFried. I didn't even know there were laws for dating coz it sounds a bit stupid, who can control ppl falling in love?

Anyway, if you do find something, I'd like to know.

Thanks

Heb

You have every right to be worried. It's arguable wether this stuff is considered cheating and I have seen this topic arise plenty of times before.

My best bet is to talk 2 him about it, calmly. I have a feeling this isn't going to work as boys will be boys and they need their porn.

I suppose you can try to get used to it because seriously, there's not a lot you can do unless you want to improve your sex life with him. However, there's a chance that he's just not "sexually attracted" into you anymore.

Either way, talk first.

Heb

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I'm kinda facing the same dilemma in a very slight way. All I can say is, if he takes you seriously enough, he'll worry about it wether or not you stress him and if he doesn't, then you shouldn't push him anyway so let it easy a bit on him.

A a side note, if it doesn't work out then you'd want to set out ur priorities. Is he more important than your future etc etc, are you gonna regret anything?

It's a hard question.

Heb

Yea abcd's got it happenin. Talk about things like movies, music, shows, famous people etc.

Heb

Hey VJ.

Do you "shoot your load"? Coz if you ain't then lol obviously you ain't going to be satisfied. Apart from that, we're guys, we like sex more, we can't live w/o it. We can't get dildos and stick our "buddies" in it, well we can but it's not too common to find them.

Girls have lotsa orgasms, and usually become more satisfied than us but that's hard to say. At the end of the day, all you really need to know is that there's nothign wrong with you, this is normal.

Heb

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Unless she teases you a lot too, I wouldn't recommend it. You should judge by yourself, like if she teases you about serious things, then do it back etc etc.

That's the best way to tell for me.

Heb

lol of course diet affects sex! What happens if you always eat the wrong food and constantly get stomach problems. lol ok that's probably not on! But it just depends on what you mean by diet - affecting sex.

Foods can affect our senses and believe it or not, you can actually get turned on by foods. Your diet can also affect your testosterone levels so overall I'd say yea, diet affects sex. But for me I reckon it's only a lil bit so it should'nt matter too much.

Heb

Hey leleth.

I gotta say I do know what it's like to be unable to sleep and miss someone so much, and my gf's like only 1.5 hours away! But during xmas holidays, I was away for 2 months and they were really hard, it was like I was half dead most the time.

I'm gonna ask you though, how long have you been like this and how'd you meet and stuff? I've been thinking a lot about these things lately coz I'm going to university next year and I might go interstate - that means me and my gf might end up being away from each other for 3-5 years.

I really don't know what to think or do. My heart says don't go there but my head says "hey, if it was meant 2 b, it'll still be ok. Plus, what's it going to be, your future or a girl that you're taking way too seriously when you still have the rest of your life ahead of you." What are your thoughts on this? Taking in mind that you've obviously gone the long distance way.

I personally don't see how they can work, this is 3-5 years of your life...won't you go crazy? won't you get insecure about what he's doing... or do you trust him that much? How often do you visit each other?

Sounds like you're not really asking a question in your post so I'll just assuming you want to vent and talk. Perhaps you should PM me sometime or add me on MSN whateva.

Yea me and my gf are kinda in a semi LDR anyway. She lives 1.5 hours away and we only get to see each other once a week if we're lucky - that's if we don't have major exams that week. We've been together for nearly a year and it's getting more and more serious.

It'd be interesting to hear about your thoughts and what you think your guy is like, that'd help me out with my thoughts too.

Hear from you sometime (prefably MSN)

Heb

Hey. Well this is the type of situation that turns into stalker situations lol. I guess you're just going to have to look at him in the eye and tell him if he keeps gettin close to you, you're gonna do *whateva it is you're going to do* and look mad.

Then when you can't takeit anymore, phrow a psyche at him and be mean to him or go with authority like the other member said. I know it sounds bad but it'll be for his own good.

Heb

Hey asspen.

I don't experience your problem. But I thought I might chuck in something. Sometimes when you don't know what to talk about, remember that feeling? Yea, the person you're tryin 2 talk to may be experiencing the same thing but they're less shy than you so they move on to someone who is easier to talk to. You're just gonna have to learn to open up and talk more I guess.

But on the side note. that girl who's ignoring you or whatever can be doing it because well there's heaps of reasons. 1) She does like you and she doesn't know what to say and she doesn't want to look dumb so she goes away. 2) She likes you and she doesn't know what to do so she avoids you for a while. 3) She doesn't like you and she's not interested. 4) She doesn't like guys who are popular coz she can't trust them.

Those are just some on the top of my head but if ur really interested, you'd be better off asking her or her closer friends.

Heb

Hey BNelley, sorry to hear about your ordeal right now. I honestly don't know either, I'd suggest you ask her what exactly she wants.

I assume though, that she's either taking you on a ride or she really doesn't know what she wants right now - for a sophomore.

Heb