Bella_Strega

First of all it's M-A-S-T-U-R-B-A-T-E. It's sad to think that someone would choose porn over a real life woman. I think you've actually just reinforced a lot of anti-porn convictions here by making that point.

By doing my research. link removed is a good place to start, she has links to lots of other info. Jenna Jameson, Tracy Lords - both raped as young girls. The woman who was in "Deepthroat" - I can't recall her name - was enslaved and forced (beaten) into that movie by her husband at the time. Just a few examples, but there are plenty more.

Give it time. The most abusive man I've ever been with started out that way. 2 months isn't enough time to really know someone. He MAY be the most fantastic person in the world...or he may not. Just keep your eyes open.

**chai, Brando, etc...** This whole male "entitlement" thing is baffling to me. If any of you would take the time to investigate the industry you so shamelessly dump billions per year into, you would realize how devastating it is to women and children all over the world. Not to mention the women in the videos who, 9 times (or more) out of 10, are desperately reenacting prior sexual traumas and allowing themselves to be exploited as a result of said prior trauma. And that's not even mentioning the portion who are actually enslaved and forced to be in them. What gives you the right to get off on the pain of another human being?