dinkykat

I've met one of his female friends and there is no sexual chemistry between them at all. They have the same interests (which I don't share which is probably why I feel like I do). He spends most of his time with me but it's just the secrecy bit I find difficult. I will walk into a room and he will put the laptop down or as soon as I walk out of a room he will be on his mobile. More often than not he won't tell me who it is. Part of his "singledom" kicking in? But if he's not ready for another relationship why tell me he loves me, lots and lots and lots?

OK if you are out on the pull and have just had chilli garlic chicken!

My boyfriend doesn't brush his teeth that often but amazingly his breath doesnt smell and he's got all his own teeth! I've caught him picking at them tonight which I found a bit disgusting, he showers a lot and is generally clean. Not asked him why, feel it's too personal. Has anyone tried chewable toothbrushes - gross!!

Sorry hun but you are being used. I've been there with an ex and he only contacted me when he wanted sex. I was in love with him so was stupid enough to do what he wanted. I've since met someone who I love deeply and even though ex has asked if we can "meet up" I've knocked him back. The feeling of being in control is fantastic and you will eventually meet someone who genuinly wants to be with you for who you are, not just a quickie.

Ive been going out with my boyfriend for only 3 months and i love him to death. The only thing spoiling our relationship is my jealousy, he has loads of female friends in real life, txt and cyberspace. Its something im not used to and am finding it really difficult to trust him even though hes done nothing wrong. Hes separated but still sees his ex wife who even cuts his hair for him! The thought of her touching his hair drives me mad, am i being silly? She txts him and rings him all the time and I know she wants to get back with him. He left her so I am confident that he doesn't want to get back with her, I just think he likes the attention. It has caused a lot of arguments and I dont want to lose him, hes been through depression and goes into his own world a lot, which doesnt include me and i feel ignored. I am trying to understand but it is difficult when I want someone who loves me as much as I love them. Ive also read txts from female colleagues which were very suggestive, I questioned him about them but he denies there was anything going on. I try to make him jealous but he doesnt bite at all. What's going on? Thanks for reading and any help appreciated.