Trishy

Woah just read the other bulletins as well. Man that guy should not be talking to you in such a manner!!! Shame on him! Things seem to be getting a little out of hand. You need to re-evaluate the situation, and look at what YOU really want. And how YOU really want to feel. And then just go with it

Oh man. Insane situation. And would be a bit awkward as well. Hopefully she is telling the truth and not just making it up to play games. I guess I am so lucky that my boyfriends ex could never do that. He has a vasectomy and he is only 24. I hope this girl isn't playing a dirty trick. But whatever the case I hope you pull through it ok and that your love keeps you two strong

This might sound immature...but create an elaberate profile and try to talk to her..say you found her at such and such place...flirt with her..and if she falls for it then I guess you got your answer. That is the immature way of doing it but at least you will know. But if you can't trust her...there is def. some kind of problem. I hate when people are sneaky like that! pisses me off

BTW....she took down that blog FINALLY. I just stood back and didn't do anything...maybe she finally realized that her blog looked immature. But she still talks about me in her about me section. Which whatever I don't care about...BUT...at least she doesn't have a bunch of her friends talking about me anymore online. Maybe they still do in person. But as long as I don't know about it lol

It sucks cause I just say before I think! My mouth reacts quicker than my brain! It is my total downfall! But you are right! Thanks for the input

I know...that is what I am trying to focus on. It's just so hard cause I THINK THINK THINK THINK THINK all the time. It drives me insane. Do you think it would be fair if I posted a blog on my profile that stuck up for myself? Or should I just throw that idea right out the window. I mean it would be on my profile, and I won't tell them about it. They can see it if they look at my profile. But at least I will be justifying my actions. So that I don't look like a total idiot?? What do you think?

Yeah, I have thought about it. That I set myself up for it. But, I am slow and I don't think about things before I do it. I say before I think. If you get what I mean? It's hard to keep back right away. Instead I just shoot off mental ammunition like crazy! It sucks. I dunno, I guess I did get myself in a pile of sh*t here. But I am just going crazy! I just want her to go away. I want her out of our lives. I want her to take off the blog she posted making me look like an a**hole. It's not fair. I don't do that to her!! Ugh..my brain feels like it's going to explode. I just want her thought, picture and crap out of my brain!

So here is the issue that I deal with. My boyfriends ex girlfriend. Here is why. She puts up a picture on her profile for people to talk about him. So I simply wrote her an email asking her if she can take the photo down because it's ridiculing him and it's not like he does it to her. So she ends up posting my email in a blog for ALL of her friends to make fun of me. So far there are 33 comments from people making fun of me over a stupid email that was private and addressed to her personally. It pisses me off and my boyfriend doesn't stand up for me!!!! He says he wants to say something after he cashes a couple of checks that she owed him. But by that time it will be too late and forgotten about on his part. But I am sure she will go on and live her life talking about me to all her little friends. The worst part is, I live in Rhode Island. The SMALLEST STATE!!!! Which means the possibilities of me running into this is very likely. I don't know what to do. I want my boyfriend to stick up for me seeing that I am his current love. I'm not asking him to tell her off or anything...but to SIMPLY stick up for me!!! I am going crazy over here. I don't know what to do. Someone please give me some helpful advice about this to help calm me down. Thank you

I think I should take this advice for myself as well! I most def. have serious anxiety and insecurity issues. I wish I could go see a therapist about it. It's ruining my life. And it's crushing me emotionally with my boyfriend. I have a similar issue as she does. It drives me nuts because this guy makes me very happy and I know he isn't doing anything wrong, yet I try to find reasons to think that he is snooping around. WHEN HE ISN'T! I hate feeling like that, I don't know why I do, and I wish I didn't!](*,)

I am totally going to have to agree with this! I hate it. I am having issues with my boyfriends ex girlfriend on there! It sucks!!!