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nope there really isnt much more to my story we are a very happy couple that just seems to have come to a weird spot and i did sit him down and ask him what was wrong to the which i got the ultimate female answer "oh nothing" but his behavior obviously states there is so here i am at this point were i feel like i have tried pretty much everything to find out whats wrong and yet somehow i still feel like he is putting up this happy front.

so ive been dating my boyfriend for over two and a half years, we seem to have a great relationship but lately a whole mess of problems have risen...im finishing my thesis and find myself under a lot of stress... i would like to solely blame myself for the stress in our relationship but i know its not just my fault... our sex life is close to vanished, he seems to have stopped communicating with me and i just feel constantly let down by him..what is going on? mostly i feel that he lets me down a lot...like when it comes to our intimacy...the romance is gone...he just wants to get in the car and go...doesnt like to warm it up anymore....and he seems to get very easily irritated by things i say or do but wont tell me...ugh i dont know what to do...does this happen in relationships?....are we just in a rut?....help....

uh thats not good?! I've been dating by BF for 3 years and it feels like so much less thats the feeling you want! You know eachother, but not too long to be sick of eachother. Do you get me? and six months is a while but a year or more i think is a little more concrete.

hey treefrogkate, thankyou i see what you mean. I love my man yes,I cant explain why I feel the way I do. Maybe is just this time of year bringing back old memories I wished had not occurred. I know temptation is there but I know myself better, I wouldnt cheat on him, at least as you put it not physically. I do however want to talk to my ex about many unanswered things, closure perhaps. I havent made a decision in what to do just yet regrding our meeting but Im thinking of talking to my current bf of this. You are right he should know if I am meeting up with my ex or not. I know I would like to know if he was doing the same. I'm just hurt. you know? I loved this man enough to marry him. And to be honest my love for my current bf can never compare to my love for my ex they are very different types of loves. how do i just walk away from one? how can i let go? i dont think im over him, i know im not how can i be over him?

so i was married once, for the wrong reason but i loved him and he didnt love me not the same anyhow. then, i got an annulment. it has been three years this upcoming thanksgiving since our annulment. for the past two years in sep. i have been dating a wonderfull guy whom i love and even adore. we have a future, i can see it. We have planned it. however, the way i felt for my husband has never changed i still love him, i like to think that it is a different type of love, exept i dont know which one. anyhow, i knew when i initially started dating my current bf, that if my ex had told me even slightly he loved me i would have somehow tried to make it work. he didnt. and now three years later and nearing the anniversary of both our annulment and marriage he confesses to me he whished we would have worked out. my heart changed its beat! what is going on! i love my current boyfriend. i would never leave him, i think. but my ex revealing that he would make it work, that he loves me! still! and all i wanted was to regain my lost friendship with him. he was an amazing friend. now he wants to meet, i kinda do too. i would never cheat on my bf but i think my heart could. what should i do? is it possible to love two people? im so lost in this!!!!