awesomepersoninthehouse

you're right. maybe him not remembering was just an obvious excuse for me to be pissed off about something deeper. truth is, so far, we've only been doing what he wants to do, or what our friends want to do. and they're all about car racing, partying, hanging out with other people and getting high and drunk.. we hardly ever go out on a date, just me and him. no, i should correct that to Never! i'm always tagging along and he would think I'm cool with it, which I am, but he never tries to spend an alone time with me. Im a pushover not because I dont have an opinion, its because I know if I want to do some thing with him, he wouldnt want to. I'm always saying 'okay, its up to you, i dont mind anything'. I feel as though I have to be understanding all the time and put up with what he feels like doing and what I want dont matter at all... probably because he's the one behind the wheels thats why I dont want to suggest anything because I dont want to appear pushy or bossy. I honestly feel like I'm always trying to please, and that he doesnt seem to put much of an effort to make me feel happy and entertained......

I've been with my boyfriend for 2 months already and so far, he's done nothing that I should be upset about. Anyway, I cant help but feeling like Im really disappointed at this relationship. I dont know probably because I've had 2 great relationship in the past and I cant settle for something not as good. You know what I mean? I have expectations to how and what a boyfriend should do. Am I being selfish? Sometimes when we're out together, I feel so frustrated because I dont feel like we're compatible and it's like I always have doubt about us being together. I really want to work things out, but he doesnt seem to see or notice we're having some sort of issue. Which I somehow agree because its mainly in my head. I really like him, he's different from all the other guys I ever went out with and he's the first person that I feel like I can be friends and lover with. But sometimes I feel as though he's not actually doing anything, as in physically doing something for me..Am i being demanding? and oh yeah, he doesnt even remember it's our two month anniversary. He didnt even do anything for our one month. We were hanging out with this other couple last night, and they've been out for almost 1 1/2 year. So they were going on about memories and how they first started going out and what date they made it official. I asked him whether he remembered (we were friends for almost a year) and he said he cant really remember what date it was, but it was a saturday. WRONG! It was a Thursday! September the 21st. and last night was our 2 month anniversary! BUT HE DIDNT REMEMBER! So I got really upset, and was quiet the entire night. When I got home, I ran back up and got his presents that I bought, but he still dont know what they were for. I hate to feel this way, but I feel like just breaking up with him because he dont meet my needs. But thats selfish needs? He's always there for me when I needed or want him the most. I dont know what to do. Should I just let it be and pretend that I'm happy about everything? Or do you think I should take sometime off to think whether I want to continue being with him....? Thanks in advance for all your help. I reached dead end and I hope you guys would be able to talk some sense into me.

I see there are some helpful tips here in this website its really lucky that I stumble upon it. Well i might give it a go,see Ive started going out with a guy i was friends with for almost a year.hes really nice very kind and understanding.hes not a sleazeball like many of the other guys ive went out with before.hes different and i can trust him. well, im almost 19 and he's 21 and we are both virgins. he never pressured me into having sex with him, he said its tempting but he knows its not a good idea, and this made me want him more. ive been down that road where i really wanted to just take him and make love to him. the problem is, since both of us are very new to this, i know we wouldnt know what to do. and as a girl, i really do try not to get myself pregnant, so do i get the condoms? or should i suggest him to get them? what should i do? how should i begin? kiss him, tease him.but how the hell do i do that? i dont even know half of what people do when they are having sex. this is really embarrasing question but I dont want to appear stupid when it happens, i just want him to have the best first time as he possibly can get, and same goes to me thanks in advance