ginger111080
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ginger111080 replied to HyruleGuardian's topic in Relationship Advice
Yeah, myspace is bad friggin news!...gives all the right people all the wrong reasons to flirt & get freak nasty. My husband has been caught red handed asking one of his myspace girls if she likes her butthole licked!....I had my suspisions long ago when he tol dme she wanted his "other head"...I wondered why & it's cause he's givin her the come on!....the best of it is, she's just newly married & sooooooooo unatractive it's unreal, but still he gets a pervy kick out of flirting with her! -
I'm sick of being treated like crap....I never do anything to offend or disrespect my partners, but still they go out their way to offend me. Time to bail out I reckon, time for plan B, take my money and run again!......think I'm gonna stay single from now on!....
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Your right, I just hate the thought of having to pack & go back home.....to a life I've been trying to get away from for so long!....but hey, somethings you just got to do I guess.
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I'd like to know a man's point of view on this too....where are they all!
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Yeah I guess so!....I've been suspicious about him emailing this girl ever since he told me she wanted him....even tho she's married!...I told him & asked him if he was disrespecting me in anyway, he said no, but reading this had made me realise that he is, there is no excuse for talking to her this way!...I would never ask a dude if he likes deep throat!...but you know what, it makes me all the more adiment to be a bad girl back to him!....i think because I'm a good girl stripper, he feels the need to get raunchy with these girls when I'm out workin at nights!
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Good question!...I met him while I was still in Scotland and he asked me to move over to the USA with him!...I'm such an idiot
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Yeah I totally agree, I mean, I've had to give him a talking too before for talking to his ex like this, you would think he would learn you know!......Man, I feel like emailing this chick and telling her to piss off too!
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Well I started off by asking him "if any dude asks me something sexual over email. would you class this as a come on?" he said "yes" I said "so you asking Megan if she likes her salad tossed then is a come on"....he punked out saying, I messed up leaving my myspace open, you read our emails. I said " erm well yeah....you are my husband no secrets right!".....he went to his bed demanded I leave him alone & not touch or speak to him. I've had this up to my ears, we spent a lovely evening together, he baked me a cake & cooked me dinner, to then see this, I'm devistated!
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Having your salad tossed means "have you ever had your butt hole licked!"
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Ok here it goes! My husband has been emailing his old highschool friend for a few months now over myspace, I saw one of his emails asking her if she had ever had her salad tossed?......I asked him about it, he shouted at me and told me to leave him alone!...she is just newly married & they like email every friggin day......I just recently got a lap dog, she complains at him allowing me a lap dog when she thinks he should have got me a manly dog!....awh man, I dunno where to go from here, his myspace is such a big secret & it's ruining our sex life and everything.....In my eyes he shouldn't be speaking to her like this or asking such questions!....none of my male friend would ever ask me this! Please help me understand how I should deal with this, he tell me she wants him etc,etc, I feel he's giving her the come on & flirting with her.
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I got groped in High School once & I kicked the guy so hard in the nuts he had them in his mouth, to me that's any girls natural reaction. In my eyes your gf enjoys the attention from other guys in particular this guy. If she loved you 100% she would never speak to this guy again & be totally disgusted by him! - She likes this guy...she enjoyes what he does....she's being mean telling you about it, she's trying to get you jealous & mad....some gf's/girls enjoy seeing this, it shows them how much you would do for them & then they walk all over you.....she's starting to walk all over you. Get out before she sucks you in even further..... But I know how difficult it is to walk away when your not ready to give up, the thing is you'll keep pushing yourself in this relationship till it destroy's you as a person & you become to really hate her.....the day you wake up & hate her, that's the day it's over.....unless you have enough will power & strength to end it before then. You don't want to show this guy how much it's bothering you either cause that's what he's waiting for (your reaction) you hit him (boy I know you wanna) but he's gonna play on it so much your gonna look like the bad one, even in your gf's eye's....walk away, with your head high man, this chick's pushing you to the limit.....find another gf who treats you with respect!...there is plenty out there you know!
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Wow, that's exactally what's going on with me, what did your man say when you asked him to stop talking with her?....My husband thinks it's a terrible thing not to speak with her again cause he's always done it and doesn't see why being married should stop him from doing it.....I understnad what you mean by leaving someone for your own well-being, it's eating me away the fact that he's speaking with her, that much i'd rather go back to Scotland than put up with this crap!.....She's not wife material either, she too is a party animal & is the local town bike if you know what I mean! (maybe we are talking about the same girl!- hahahaha) yeah, I hate woman who seem to think it's a good idea to hang about and talk with their ex's, they know perfectly well what they are doing, she must be laughing to herself, knowing I'm going mental about the fact of them emailing, it must give her so much satisfaction....gggggggggrrrrrrrrrrrrr I so want to email her & ask her to move on with her life.
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Thanks so much for your comment, your so right. The thing is, some men do not understand things how we see it, he doesn't see anything wrong in what he's doing full stop, cause as far as he's concerend he aint doing anything wrong, thereforeeee he doesn't want to stop talking with her....he doesn't see how much pain it's causing me, some men have no understanding at all of a womens feelings and how we think. I'm hoping that all of this will fritter out.....oh I do hope!.....cause if it doesn't it's time for me to go back to Scotland.
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Thanks, that sounds like a good idea....this whole situation is tearing my world apart, he has had plenty opportunities to marry her but he chose me, so I guess I should see it more like how you see it instead of being all jealous.......the thing is, if I tell them to stop speaking she's gonna bad mouth me to him & it's going to make me look like the bad one, I don't want to give her any ammo on me, or give her the satisfaction of talking about me to him & start poisoning his mind....he's lied to me a few times about speaking with her, this is why i'm so uneasy, before I moved in with him I was living with his mother, when we got our house and I moved down to where I am now, I saw all these texts on his phone from her, his face went bright red when I questioned him about it. I nearly ate him alive, she was calling me a bith etc,etc!....just because he chose me to marry him not her....I wanna call her & ask her what her problem is!....I better not though!
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I totally agree.... He doesn't like the idea that i'm trying to tell him to stop speaking to her, he doesn't see why being married & having a wife should stop him speaking to her because he say's there is totally nothing in the way they speak & they have done this for years & that he didn't mean anything in saying that to her. I'll never know his true feelings about all of this, he told me he has nothing to hide & is quite happy to show me every email that goes back and forward.....but till time passes & these emails are checked i'll never feel like I can trust him. Maybe i'm just being paraniod, i'll never know, but I get anxious everytime he checks his email & wherever he gets a txt. She will txt him once in a while, that's another thing that makes me uneasy!