slim86

yea i know what you mean about the needy thing... to me neediness means "insecurity" and thats a flaw if you're trying to get a gf. Girls want dudes that are secure with themselves and can be their own guy and not worry about others think. To me, most girls are very insecure about themselves already and if you're trying to get with that girl.. theres not point in both of u being insecure, u feel me? so basically be yourself. You don't need to be cocky or a jerk to get a good conversation going. And if you're boring the chick, then maybe its her thats boring and not you. You got nothing to lose man. Myself, i'm still dealing with shyness, but i'm getting better at it by working out and lifting weights to give me that extra confidence to be around the ladies. good luck man

i'm 20, never had a gf (except when i was in 8th grade...WOW haha), been on a couple of dates and i'm pretty miserable being single lol. but i try to keep busy by getting work done in college and do things that make me feel better about myself lol

ok so my sisters been thinking i'm gay recently...why do i know so? because they have been acting funny towards me lately.. Let me tell you my story. Anyways, i'm 20 years old, skinny, and can't seem to find a girlfriend and have no friends except for like 2 people. Yea i know, i'm a big loser. Actually, I never had a girlfriend. Why? I lack confidence and the girls that i've dated found me to be boring and vice versa. The last chick that i dated recently said i was too skinny. So that made me depressed for a while and i was like whatever. The reason i knew that my sisters been thinkin i'm gay or something is because my oldest sister is been mentioning gay stuff around me whenever i'm watching tv like "oh u think that guy is cute?" and i'm like "uhh... no i'm not gay".. and then i'm just on my other sister's laptop in her room and shes checking her voicemail and putting it on speakerphone and some dude sounded gay so i was like "that dude sounds gay" i was jk'ing and then shes like "he'll treat u right..." and then goes "oops, what am i saying?" and i'm like " * * *..what did u say?" and she goes "he'll treat me right, because my bf is a jerk right now" and i'm in shock that she'd say some sh!t like that to me. I mean don't get me wrong, i have nothing against gay people or anything, but dammit i'm mad that my sisters are thinkin this. i seriously need to get out the house and find a girlfriend quick because they're really pissing me and its making my confidence sink down the drain. I mean i'm obsessed with girls and thats all i think about, but they're making me paranoid that i look gay/or something and thats a big kill in my ego. what do you guys think i should do?