Zero05

Alright, so scratch the last question. I'm not into making anyone uncomfortable. I was just wondering if there might be a quick and easy solution to it. I'd still appreciate any more advice / opinions on the first three !

Thanks for the quick responses! I should clarify a bit more about what I was looking for on number 4. Is there any way to reduce or eliminate a gag reflex? Can you train yourself to not gag? I guess I've simply never had one at all, so I don't really know how controllable it can be.

1. My girlfriend has, for lack of a better term, a "spontaneous rape fantasy" that she would really enjoy playing out with me. Essentially, she wants me to forcefully (but consensually) take her when she doesn't expect it somewhere outside of the bedroom. All this is well and good, however, she also does not want me use a condom during this fantasy, as she thinks it would take away from the spontaneity. Both of us have been tested for STD's and are clean, and she is on a birth-control pill as well. However, I still feel a little unsure about not using a condom. It seems kind of like a needless risk. (Though I must admit, I am tempted occasionally to see if it makes a difference). So, what I was wondering, was how much of a risk other people thought it would be to not use a condom. 2. Other than the aforementioned fantasy, my girlfriend has no imagination (?) when it comes to things she would like to try. She says she enjoys normal (is there such a thing) sex with me more than anything else. Unfortunately, I get bored of that from time to time, and like to change things up. She does so willingly enough, (we've done pretty much every standard thing that comes immediately to mind) but always seems happier when we go back to regular sex. My second question then, is for any advice/suggestions people could give me for things I could do to/with her other than sex in a bed that she might really enjoy (cuz sex is never fun for me unless she is having a good time too...). 3. This is more of an extension of question #2, and it is one of the main reasons I get bored with "regular" sex. My girlfriend can only cum through vaginal penetration in 2 positions. Now, (from reading posts on the internet) while it is my understanding that cumming every time through vaginal penetration is a bit of a small miracle for girls, cumming in those 2 positions can get kind of uninteresting for me (as we cum at the same time 95% of the time). So, whereas the second question is for ideas about different things to try, for this one I'd like some input as to less-commonly-known positions we might try that would stimulate her in the same way. (she can only cum when she is on top or on her back with her knees nearly touching her head) 4. And finally, perhaps my most selfish question: I really want her to deep-throat my penis (6.5"), but she is uncomfortable with that. I guess I just don't see it as being that difficult to do (maybe my gag reflex doesn't work properly). I guess for this question I'd just like to know what percentage of people think they could do that, and what the best (nicest/easiest/safest etc.) way of getting her to do it would be. I hope these all make sense !

I was just hoping to get some input from people who have been suicidal in the past and tried taking anti-depressants (prescribed of course) to help them? I have been depressed and unhappy for a long time, and I think about suicide nearly constantly. Thinking about different ways to kill myself is pretty much the only way I can feel any happiness at all. I scheduled an appointment with a psychiatrist to try and help. I went to a psychiatrist for several months five years ago for similar reasons (depression and suicide) and she prescribed an anti depressant for me. I took it for about a week, and then decided that I needed to be happy without drugs...if that makes sense? I didn't want to be artificially happy. Anyways, I'm fairly certain my new psychiatrist will prescribe anti depressants again,and I'm fed up with being constantly unhappy that I'll probably start taking them. I guess what I want to know is how anti-depressants have changed people in the long run? Did they make you happier? Permanently? I've heard a lot about anti-depressants causing drastic mood swings, is that true? Will I be worse off if I try them and then stop taking them? Did your perceptions of the world change? Basically anything at all related to how they affected your world... Thanks

Despite being warned not to date others in the same dormitory building, I hooked up with the girl accross the hall. We've been going out for close to 6 months. Unfortunately, things between us have slowly begun going sour. Things between us aren't unbearable, but it seems that doing things with her often leads to petty arguing or just general unhappiness. Both of us are on good terms with our roommates, and the rest of the dorm in general. And thus does my problem become more apparent. How difficult (awkard) do you think it would be to end things between us and still live accross the hallway from each other? I would rather not leave my room, and I''m fairly certain she wouldn't want to either. Would I be better off just staying with her for a few more weeks until school ends? Or should I call it quits and hope for the best?