lifeisshort66

I think you're so used to doing it one way that doing it another way just isn't doing it for you... yet. Practice makes perfect, try using lube and thinking of fantasies.

Does it really matter WHY she did it? The fact is she showed interest, so act on it.

It sounds like it is time for you two to branch out a little. Just sitting around all day is a bad habbit to het into. It can make you become annoyed withone another much easier and it's not exactly healthy You aren't being unreasonable! Going to the park is a good idea. Do you excersize at all? I find that running together can be enjoyable and healthy. Just tell him how you feel in a non-offensive way, he should understand.

This is saddening. He doesn't love you, real sex isn't a one sided exchange. True sex is about communication and another way to show your love to another person. My guess is he will kiss you once, and then insert. Make sure he is wearing a condom or else you WILL become pregnant. I would actually take two forms of birth control, because condoms can rip, tear, break, leak, etc. In the end it's your body and you can do what you want with it.

Perhaps the question is more difficult than I thought.

How do relationships affect sexual "responsibilities" (no better term) as the relationships become deeper. People often have different opinions when it comes to sex and levels of relationships and this has always confused me. For example, some say that sex is the difference between a relationship and a friendship. But you can have a relationship without sex, right? But then what happens when one partner wants sex more in a relationship (after they've done it allready) than the other? Can the person who wants it less can just say "sex isn't necessary in a relationship"? This is the thing that troubles me the most: When it comes to a marriage, how does sex transform into somewhat of a deal breaker? I'm having problems, but it seems like it's more justifiable for me to say something about it than a for boyfriend who is having problem with his girlfriend (or vice versa) to say something. Usually, that boyfriend would get the advice to "just dump her." I'm just confused I guess... if anyone could give me their opinion I would be glad!