Deadtoyouforever74

Hot to cold? Was it really that hot to begin with?Maybe you were laying the melted butter on too thick begin with and she seen right through it. Lots of love bombing these days. She probably thinks you are a phoney bloany. She must have some sort of interest in you in to entertain conversations with you. Unless you are trying to trap her into to something she isn't ready for. I dunno. Hard to read people's intentions these days and who not to trust. Not everyone is a friend.

He doesn't see you as special for the person you are or doesn't find you attractive. Plenty of fish in the sea. I'm sure you can find better. He's probably a real creep anyway. Move on don't waste your time on him.

Sounds like a perfect match!

You sound like a great catch to me. Sounds like she would be lucky to have you. Maybe she is worried that you will hurt her, I dunno?

How do know she has mental illness she's probably an attention seeker. Or trying to ward off unwanted men lol. Just a thought lol

She will have to choose you or him give her a little time to close one door before she opens another. Does that make sense? You can love many people in many different ways. Like a lover, like a friend, like a brother, like a mother, like a father, like a cousin, but no one can love you they way you want to need to be loved unless they are sure what type of love they desire from you.

Sounds like you are a very educated man. You would be a man after my own heart. I tend to stay away from people who have mental issues. I do have add. So I'm stuck with that. I'm clingy sometimes. We crave intimacy yes because we are women. I love to lay on my man's lap but darn you have to have some breathing room. Why did she drop you cold turkey? It doesn't make sense. She's scared to trust her heart to you, is what it sounds like because someone has broken her. Are you willing to fix it?

Sounds like she really loves you. But you have disappointed her somehow. Maybe you hurt her or betrayed her? Love is always enough. Do you really love her though is she worth it? Only you can decide that? Trust in yourself.

My uncle once said never trust anything that bleeds for 7 days and doesn't die. I say never trust no one but your self. Only you can know what you can live with or without. People you know and respect and trust will knife you faster than anyone. Just like Billy Joel said, I'm may be crazy but I maybe right. Riding a bicycle around a curve and getting knocked off it by a car was the best thing that ever happened to me. I got to meet some lunatics that accepted me for who I am. I hate when people think they are pulling the wool over your eyes and you see right through it...glass house are transparent I like to see what I'm dealing with in life.

I feel for you I really do. I understand your frustration. Either part ways or tell him to help out or get out. I work alot, so I don't have much time for household chores. I try to stay awake for laundry and some dishes occasionally mopping the floors and cleaning up the toilet. I'm not a good cook so I don't bother. Plus prefer to eat once a day. Because I don't believe in overeating to become obese. I eat to survive that's it. I eat when I must. My rarely ask my partner for help with household issues because I get the same old song and dance. I do everything around here and you do nothing. I'm just like dude I have a bad back. Migraine headaches and I'm exhausted everyday but I don't complain about it. I stay silent because I don't want pity. I want someone who wants to help me because they are feeling like they are doing it out of love not out of force. He even goes to the extreme of saying he is the house ni***er This really hurts me. My feelings are crushed. That tells me he's only there out of pity. I can do without that. I feel like I'm a slave. But I don't run around throwing up in his face everyday and every chance I get. I politely carry on. My husband smarts me off if I ask him to grab a soda from the fridge while he's in the kitchen. Then they wonder why we don't talk to them. Men will never understand us. Until we are gone. All they want is a servant to cater to their needs tend to house raise their children. Work us to death and then toss us to the side when a better option comes along.

Narcissistic people only care for themselves not others. They don't feel your pain only theirs. They see you hurting and they laugh.

Maybe she feels neglected as well she also feeds off your energy. Narcissistic I don't know? Sounds like she's too busy to be a Narcissistic type of person. She may feel unloved and unappreciated by you. Women need to be cuddle not groped. Hugged not bear Hugged. Kissed not tongues jammed down our throat. Four play is more than rubbing our clits, 😆 🤣 or shoving your finger up the starfish...lol. Try working on your technique and she's going to come around. I'm sure of it. Good luck.

It might mean she's desperately in love with you and trying not to be found out. Maybe she is scared of rejection. She needs to feel like it's worth her time. Her heart is one the line. Good luck!

I'm recently married and I'm ready for a divorce. My old high school sweetheart and I married but I don't love him anymore. Too much has been done. He thinks I don't have a clue what he has become. I want to mutilate myself. I hate myself no time will ever heal me. He thinks he's irreplaceable and *** everything that moves. I don't feel love. Things won't get better. They never will. He has pushed me to suicide. It will end my pain. I'm going to disappear and never look back. I don't want him to know if I am ever alive or dead. I can't go on feeling this way.