NUNA

It has been two months since I last posted here. During that time, I shared about how my ex treated me poorly, being a toxic person. The advice and support I received here helped me gain wisdom, empowering me to end what was causing me pain. I initiated the no-contact rule and took the necessary time to heal. During this period, I met someone who treats me well, someone who puts effort into making me happy. I've genuinely enjoyed spending time with him, and gradually, thoughts of my ex have lessened. Today, this new person expressed his feelings for me. However, I was taken aback; my heart felt unusually cold, and I didn't provide him with a clear answer, even though deep down, I sensed that I liked him too. On my way home, I found myself thinking about my ex, something I hadn't done for a while. I even went against my promise not to check his social media page. This unexpected surge of emotions led me to tears, reminiscent of the day we broke up. I'm puzzled about why I'm feeling this way. I thought I had moved on, but now I'm questioning whether I truly feel.

it is now one week that am focusing in healing and moving on .. i was feeling okay and peacelfull but today i saw him crossing the road .. he didnt saw le but i did why i feel weak again .. why it hurts more again

Thanks for your advice , i stopped reaching out and am working to move on and focus on myself i feel relived from the stress who used to give me each day

@rainbowsandroses he contacts me after a week that i didnt reach out .. i played his game so he may feelt the hurt and how miserable i was but he couldnt take it for a one day and ended up blocking me everywhere

thanks for your kindness .. i still remember your words from my last post and i decide to never hit on him again because at this point its clear he doesnt want to make effort for us and i cant do it all alone i will work on healing and moving to the next..

one month.. even if i set up to meet him we end up arguing by that time

thanks for valuing what i feel now .. iam a direct person and had told him if there is a problem we need to face each other and talk we sloved many hing this way but when he turns slient i cant do nothing cuz i dont even get answer back whitout forgetting i always reach out for him

i am already in a miserable situation which i dont even know myself , i viewed my life with him in an ordinary way that i cant now imagine i could be happy as much as if could be with him

Lately our relation isn't the best its up and down and we are not the same as we were i start dealing with his mood swings sometimes we are good sometimes we are not taking many breaks but we keep getting back to each other but am always the first who reach out last week ive seen a doctor cuz of stress of work but deep of me i know this relation starts consuming me.. he knows that im gonna check out that day but he suddenly disappear and didnt ask me what the doc said i gave excuses that maybe he is busy i know i was fooling myself but i waited couple of days to see that he didnt reacted and he is living his days normaly the 3rd day i end up putting my pride side and texted him i said " i hope you are fine , i miss u" and not to be suprised he saw my msg and never answer.. my past relation were all toxic and i was always left alone at the end people will just leave with no closure and i had told my bf that i want no complex in our relation and we could communicate and solve anything could make us fight he valided that which made us never fight during one year and half but by time situations changed and i cant deal with his mood swing even if we had fight he will use the silent treat which i hate the most inside of sitting down and discuss I can say that I am very attached to that person and all my future plans are with him.. but I see myself doing a lot to make this relationship work but i feel i dont get the same enery back from him which makes me lose hope day by day.

OH GIRL this gives me heart ache as well you need to move on cuz you are wasting an other man chance who will value u more than his himself to get u by chassing this child

we are kind a couple who updates each other all time .. at work , with friends or any other time but some days i get no updates from him and am the only one who keeps asking but if i get no energy from him i stop but it could go for days which he goes way colder ps : we only see each other once a week because we live far from each other

I've been dating my bf for quite 2 years now we had plans to get marry but get conceled for a time i noticied that he starts acting weird and i cant deal with his mood swings he may be so lovable for couple days and turns cold and dry the next day . which i need to play chasing game over and over to get him back i have told him many times that his acts hurts me .. im a kind person who doesnt like to play games so am always direct with my acts whenever he said that there is something i hurt him with i will never do it again which made me to be more carefull with my acts.. i feel our relation is going by his mood.. i know that he loves me right and he is working hard for our future .. but i hate those mood swings what should i do?

any update about the hi msg .

Its only 1 year relationship why she wants to get pregnant too early

Ask her and get an answer .. dont waste time and energy just do it