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  1. I don’t know. The thruth is that this is the first time in 2 years that I actually liked someone after my ex and would consider to date. It sucks that the same feeling is back where you realize she doesn’t want the same thing. I actually hate this feeling.
  2. No, maybe she’ll come back for something serious.
  3. She did know I wanted more, it’s the reason we stopped texting/dating 3 months ago. So when she suddenly came back last week, I assumed she had changed her mind. Anyways, haven’t heard from her since the night she spent over. Sucks, but I won’t initiate contact. She probably won’t either. Still hoping that she does.
  4. True. Maybe it’s because I focus on the potential of what could be. Anyways, need to move on.
  5. This actually hurts. Going to stay away from the whole dating scene for a while. I just hate these moments. I’m sick of it
  6. Probably, that’s what my gut feeling is telling me too. I’ll see how it goes, I have a bit of experience with this kind of situations. I’ll just move on and keep dating 🙂
  7. Difficult to say, I do have a bit of feelings for her. Not going to lie about that. I could see myself together with her, so I’ve got some mixed feelings right now. Guess there is only 1 option and that’s to let her take initiative. Asking for clarity will only drive her more away I guess
  8. Update: i hadn’t heard from her for 2 months since yesterday. She messaged me how I was doing and she came over at my place for drinks. One thing let to another and we kissed and hooked up. She stayed the night and went to her work this morning. She said that she missed me but she is still uncertain that she’s looking for a relationship. Bit mixed feelings right now, I can feel that she has some sort of fear to commit her, but she does like me. Don’t know what to do now, I guess my best option is to leave the ball in her court and to let her initiate contact? (She wasn’t drunk last night to be clear)
  9. Yeah, I know. I’ve been at the other side of this story too. Positive thing is that I’m finally over my ex. Didn’t thought this was possible 1,5 year ago. Did had a little breakdown last night, struggle sometimes to see the silver lining in all of this. But I guess in the end it will all work out ✌🏻
  10. She reached out, but again quite cold. I asked her if anything was wrong and she gave me the whole “I’m not completely ready for something new (she’s 1 year single) and it would be unfair to you to keep dating”. Bummer, really thought we were going somewhere.
  11. Okay, will do. It’s just the timing that annoys me. She clearly had a good time on our date. And the amount of texts increased after. So it just sucks not knowing why it suddenly stopped. Anyways, the eventual outcome won’t change.
  12. As expected no message. My feeling was right when she suddenly reduced the messaging. A bit stupid that she wasn’t honest when I asked for a second date. I don’t know if I should ask her in a few days why she suddenly “ghosted” me.
  13. Okay, thanks for the advice you all :). I’ll keep you posted
  14. You’re right. Clingy and insecure man drive woman away. Just some clarity would be nice.
  15. So, I sent a random snapchat tonight and she responded right away with a snapchat and a textmessage “have fun!”. Not bad, but I still have an urge to ask her why she is/was so short in her texting the last few days. Should I confront her? Or should I ask when she has time for the date next week?
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