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  1. WrittenInTheStars
    He has been texting and I sadly gave in. I told him about the comments and likes he’s removed from Instagram and he said that the solution to it was to not react anymore. I also told him I wanted us to define our relationship and he told me “does all this time not matter or that I’m planning to go see you?” I asked him again to answer me and he said “I love you” but again he didn’t answer me. I know he’s avoiding being in a committed relationship, so I told him I won’t go on if we don’t define our relationship. And now I feel like I’m hanging on a string because if he says no then we’re officially over and I don’t want that 😔
  2. WrittenInTheStars
    I’ve thought about that a lot too. But he hasn’t given me any signs other than he doesn’t want to post me on IG and he deleted my comment on his picture this past week that he got mad. But it’s possible he recently started to see some one else. Who knows 😞
  3. WrittenInTheStars
    You’re right, I didn’t wait for his texts any more at night and I was able to sleep without my usually anxiety. I guess time will help me heal. I did however make the mistake of messaging him. I was angry and told him the surprise I had planned. He actually responded but he didn’t apologize. I’m not gonna be taking a man back for not apologizing for what he made me go through. It’s still unbelievable to me that he got mad over this small thing.
  4. WrittenInTheStars
    I’m so close to texting him again. The last time I texted him was Thursday, he left me on read again. But I saw a meme he like on IG about being cheated on. Do you think he thinks I cheated on him. He’s always doubted my faithfulness to him and when I told him about the surprise he thought I was planning to go to with someone else. I just want us to go back to normal so I can stop feeling this heart ache, all I think about day and night is him.
  5. WrittenInTheStars
    Yes it’s the same person 😔
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    I’ve been in a long distance relationship for almost two years. I just got back from spending the entire summer with him, this Monday I asked him when he was going to come visit me because I had set up a surprise for him. He told me that date and I responded to him that he wouldn’t make it on time but that I would plan another surprise for when he got here. He told me to tell him what it was but I refused and said I wanted it to be a surprise. He then followed by telling me that I probably planned it to go with someone else, he said goodnight and since then we haven’t talked. I called him Tuesday and Wednesday, I texted him, told him to please response cause I felt a hole in my chest because he was ignoring me. He read it but didn’t respond. Yesterday, Thursday I wrote three long paragraph messages and told him that I was sorry if it seemed like I was going with someone else, that I didn’t want us to end and that I loved him and whatever is going on that I need to know I can’t be left in the dark. Afterwards I went to his IG and found that he had erased my comments on his pictures and realized he’s probably dating someone else that’s why he’s ghosting me. I don’t know what to do I want to get him to respond to me, not to get him back to find some kind of closure to understand what happened and try and close this chapter.
  8. WrittenInTheStars
    I guess now that you asked I realize he does dictate the terms. I’m not sure what the deal with labels is but I’ he’s had girlfriends before I don’t know why it is that with me he doesn’t want to put a label to it. It varies we’ll see each other for a week or a weekend on average every two months
  9. WrittenInTheStars
    We are long distance. We text at least once a day. We had a problem back in January where he told me he wasn’t sure he could give me what I wanted. We saw each other in February and talked about it he basically said he wasn’t ready for commitment. But it’s strange to me since he still tells me he loves me but can’t commit to a relationship
  10. WrittenInTheStars
    We don’t have a label but we’ve been going out for over a year. He doesn’t want to put a label to our relationship but he says he doesn’t talk to anyone else
  11. WrittenInTheStars
    I’m so furious right now but also a little confused. The person I am talking to right now unliked my picture. I posted it two days ago he liked it one day ago and unliked it today. He sent me a message about my picture saying “I wonder who you went with in that picture.” It was sarcasm cause it was obviously with him. I would think it was an accident if it wasn’t the first time he had done it but he recently did it to a picture I had posted over a year ago. We have a lot of friends in common because he’s from my parents hometown, and when I see there profiles he’s liked every single one of their pictures (girls in seductive poses). It makes me wonder if he’s trying to hide that fact that he likes me to someone who follows me. Please let me know what you guys think
  12. WrittenInTheStars
    I guess you’re right. A part of me wants to fix things but I know that may not happen so I also have to be prepared to end things with him.
  13. WrittenInTheStars
    Thank you everyone for your responses. I know the best thing to do is follow your advice. He just texted me and said if we can continue with the plans we had to meet up in February and talk about it there. I’m thinking of going for closure.
  14. WrittenInTheStars
    I can see what you mean about not wanting to go through meeting someone else. How about suggesting trying new things maybe looking at new sex poses or using toys, vibrators etc?
  15. WrittenInTheStars
    Thank you I think you’re right it’s just so hard letting go with all the good memories we had together I just don’t know if I’ll get over this. Also update, he finally replied and said it’s been a lot of things that have happened and he doesn’t think it’s worth explaining. He also said I can see you are doing whatever you like. he’s saying that cause I turned off my location and posted a story of me in a concert. him getting upset over that makes me feel like he still cares
  16. WrittenInTheStars
    It’s very unfortunate what you are going through but from my experience when you stop feeling sexual attract you body is telling you something. I know it’s hard to leave someone because you get used to their company especially if you’ve known them for a long time. I would suggest you have a serious talk and explain to him how you are feeling, it’s better to do it now than wait a long time and have it be harder to do.
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