Last thing I will add... I realize it was wrong to suggest sex to a girl who needs help getting sober.. I own it. So I called her about 4 weeks ago to apologize for that. I said I know it was selfish and inappropriate and that I wish I had not said that... She was cool and did not seem bothered by it. I asked her how she was doing and she told me about a new job she just got. I congratulated her. She said, "the story how I got this job is crazy, but that's a story for another time". I asked, "do you want to catch up later?". She replied, "no, I don't think so".... and that was it.. (flip flop answer) I realize now I should have just made the amends and left it alone...