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My experience going out to clubs and that and guys with numbers is that usually, you don't meet a nice guy out at places like that. I wouldn't call, he said he would, and if he does then cool, but if not, move on. No emotions, so you wouldn't be hurt.

I think that the most important thing for you, is to focus on what makes you happy and feel secure about yourself. I think sometimes talking to someone else like a counsoler is good. I really believe you can't love someone else until you really love yourself and are content with you. Let him do what he wants, and focus on your happiness with or without him.

Jesco_MATT3R, I think that it is great you are honest with your emotions, but at the same time, in life when people want something or someone their actions speak louder than words. If the young lady that you love is dating another boy and then fooling around with you, it sounds as though she doesn't know what she wants. And you are getting hurt feelings and being involved with somone that cares only for themselves. I think it would be best you make space from her and focus on your friends, school, sports, family, anything you enjoy. You have so MUCH time for love in your life, and deserve to have someone be with you and you alone if you both feel the same. But, enjoy being young and don't worry for love, love will fall into place at the right time. Meet lots of people and find out what you want to be when you grow up and then everything can fall into place.

Hello All- I will try to condense my story. Four years ago I started dating this guy and over the past four years we have been on and off a few times. In the past two years he has moved to NC and I am in FL. He has a business there and I just graduated from college. I love him and know there could be a future with him and he feels the same way. He has asked me to move to the area so we can no longer have a long distance relationship, but rather see if we are to go to the next stage, ie living together. Now in the meantime, I am unsure of what career I want, so I started looking into the Navy to be an officer. I never did any military things in my life, but think there are a lot of positives out of the career. I am unsure of what to do, because my heart and my head are in two different spots. Any insight would be great. Thanks all.