i do enjoy sex dont get me wrong. i enjoy the intermitcity. i just would like to push it that one stage further and orgasm. I can do it perfectly on my own. i just cant seem to do it in fore play or whilst having sex. i have lyed to my partner and told him that i have, because i feel that i would hurt his pride if he knew the truth.many men could get angry with me saying i lied but i dont no what to do? i dont no if any one else feel like this but you tend to think every women that has sex orgasms i know thats not the truth! but argh... what am i doing wrong