Nicky

This is what I wrote about a couple a weeks ago- My ex boyfriend broke up with me about 8 months ago... The break-up was painful...Ok, now we are friends and can talk to eachother and be like adults when we see eachother... Sou if you remember I told you that I now is intreseted about a new man... This new man nows my ex. They call eachother friends.. but they are not close friends... They have seen eachother about 3 times in 2 years.... (this my ex bf told me)... Sou anyways yesterday I got an invitation from this new man... He asked me if I wanted to go out with him this weekend (just as friends at first... But then half an hour later the told me... and after this first date if everything goes okey, then lets see if this could be somethingelse besides friendship.... He ment something romantic... Now I have a problem.. I´m going away this weekend.... But I really want to go out with him... So I have to say to him if we could to this another time, like next week.... But what if he thinks thät if I dont go out with him this weekend, then this is never gonna happen again.. Oh my..... or should I cancell this other trip with my friends.. ---- UPDATE... I went on my trip.. It was a lot of fun. I had a date with this new.. and I had to say, if we could cancel it and go next week... Now I know he wasn´t serious with me... He said we´ll see in the future. But I´m not going to sit here and "wait" for him to call me... Because now I know he´s not gonna to do that! I`M MOVING ON!!!!

yes I really dont wanna cancel.. and if he´s serious he will be here when I come back.... right?

I wrote a couple of weeks ago about my situation... My ex boyfriend broke up with me about 8 months ago... The break-up was painful...Ok, now we are friends and can talk to eachother and be like adults when we see eachother... Sou if you remember I told you that I now is intreseted about a new man... This new man nows my ex. They call eachother friends.. but they are not close friends... They have seen eachother about 3 times in 2 years.... (this my ex bf told me)... Sou anyways yesterday I got an invitation from this new man... He asked me if I wanted to go out with him this weekend (just as friends at first... But then half an hour later the told me... and after this first date if everything goes okey, then lets see if this could be somethingelse besides friendship.... He ment something romantic... Now I have a problem.. I´m going away this weekend.... But I really want to go out with him... So I have to say to him if we could to this another time, like next week.... But what if he thinks thät if I dont go out with him this weekend, then this is never gonna happen again.. Oh my..... or should I cancell this other trip with my friends... Give me some advice please....

talked to the new guy.... and he isn´t going to stop talking with me... but he wants to take it slow... friends.... and then look what i could be in the future... then I separetly talked to my ex... and he said hes yellous if our new friendship is going to result in something romantic.... because he wants to find a new girlfriend before I find a new boyfriend!! why? he said he wants me to be happy......

A couple weeks ago I wrote that I had been flirting with my exboyfriends friend. Okey they call eachother friends but they see eachother each year about 3 times...so they are NOT close friends... So I have been writing to this "new guy" and talking to him a few times.... We have a lot in common.... And we can talk to eachother... Now my exboyfriend has said to his friend, that he SHOULDN´T have any contact with me... WHY??? So now this new guy.. said to me that he and I shouldn´t be friends.... And we are just friends.,.... it´s not romantic in any way our friendship..... I´m confused both me and the "New guy" wants to be friends... but now my ex says it´s no goood..... WHY??? Im confused.... He broke up with me 7 months ago.... Is he envious or? Because we are FRIENDS??? Or is he afraid that we are going to get involved...?? Why should we give up our new friendship???

3-4 hours EVERY?? night... that´s a lot... wouldn´t 1 hour be enough? *just a thought*

ask her out.... I think shes intrested....

I would really like to give this a chance.....

but what if I get hurt again??

they are not close friends... but they call eachother friends.... and I really do like the new guy... and I can´t stop smiling.... and this thing I had with my ex, it´s over and now we are just friends.... so what if I like his friend? if my ex really is over me...then it should be oukey with him or?

oh my gooooood... it´s been now about 7 months since my ex boyfriend broke up with me.. and now I´m flirting with a new man , who happens to be his friend... this "new" person is so lovely it tickles in my tummy, I always smile when I see that he has sent me a textmessage on the phone, he says he´s intressted and that I´m a intressting and special person.... And we think a lot a like...... I wonder what he wants....??? Friendship? More? Is it right to have contact with him and talk to him, when he is my exboyfriend´s friend?? Is it right that he is the first man since my breakup, that makes me smile? I´m happy.... he makes me feel gooooood everytime I talk to him or everytime I get a textmessage on the phone... Help me what should I do.... continue to have contact with my ex (NOW WHEN WE CAN TALK TO EACHOTHER).... or continue to talk to the "new" guy?? I´m confused.... My heart says that I should see what could happen with this new guy... But something inside me says it´s wrong, becuase of my ex...

Now it´s been about 7 months since my ex boyfriend broke up with me.... And I really do miss him... I still like him very much but I don´t now if I love him anymore... ANyways... he wants to be friends... And after the break up we have tried to get togehter.. talk to eachother... every month... a few days.... When he broke up with me he said just friends..... And now he is with me almost every evning in the week.... He comes to my apartment or he wants me to come ut with him, for a walk or go to the movies... I´m confused!! I really am... He wants to be friends.... ONLY friends.... But why??does he hug me or kiss me?? not only on the cheek but on the mouth... And when I ask him, why does he do this to me.. when we only are friends... He says that a hug or a kiss are very innocent things?? And I have a real problem to say NO to him... Am I looser or? And I always remember when with talked about OUR future togeheter as a couple... We both wanted kids (2), a house with a garden, a cat.... And now the dream is gone... ANd I´m am dissopointed because he took the dream away....and now hes gonna have the dream with another girl, not with me,but with another girl.. It hurts..... I dont wanna se him with another girl.. but I live in the sam city... about 20 minutes from his apartment... Oooh help me.. somebody... Help me I´m confused!! I reaaly want to be his friend, I enjoy his company! But I think I should be allowed to heal some moore after the break up....