Sapphire I am sooo sorry to hear about your situation but I do know a little of what you are going through but without children. I agree with hearo you need to try to get at least some more of your things before you officially move out. Why are you moving out anyway? He should be the one to move out in that he is never there anyway & you are taking care of your children. Well, I guess only you know what is best for you & your children..