I hope I am getting the the right person as I have never done one of the message boards before. Let me tell you my story as it is way too similar to yours. I got married right after High School to my sweetheart. We had mad sex months before we got married, and I loved her deeply. Then we got married (I was 19, she was 18) and after the night we got married the sex stopped. I have no idea why it happened but I have to say that once we got married we only had sex about two to four times a month. This was very hard on 19 year old me and I tried talking to her about it and again it sounds like your story. Our marriage ended after five months, not just because of the sex but it was a huge part that seemed to uncover some problems. Here is my recomendation, if you really want to keep this relashionship alive and don't want to live a life full of resentment......get help, a counselor with credentials, if she is unwilling then for your sanity's sake get out of the marriage. It took me years to recover menatlly as I was deeply in love with my wife, but looking back it was better that we split up. And don't think there is no one else in the world for you as I have found someone dear to me and I love her very much and we have a wonderful relashionship including a very healthy sex life. I hope this helps as it is the only reason I got into this thing.