SeaBisquit

i still think about my ex, even tho he was a jerk and sometimes i wonder if he thinks about me. or if he just moved on without a care. i have heard that guys move on alot quicker. i often wonder if that is true also.

he sounds like he is really fustrated with his life right now and needs some time alone to think things thru. people deal with stress in different ways and alot of time people just want to be left alone unfortunately. i know it's hard but i would make his time at home as stress free as possible. plus i think you need to sit down and discuss things with him in a caring manner, tell him your there for him.

another turn off to me is a guy who doesn't talk much. If i have to inniate the conversation and do all the talking it's a big turn off. makes me feel like i have to entertain myself.

a man who exagerates his accomplishments, a man who is a liar, a man who makes promises he doesn't keep, a man who is arrogant, a man that has no respect for woman.

I would keep him as a friend. but chances are he is just using you in some aspect or another. To me when they say your not gf material it means they don't care about you.

man i would look at it like this... this guy respected you enough to tell you the truth, that he doesn't want a commitment. and he also said you were to nice for him.

lol jeremy thats pretty cool.....

well i have learned from reading back on my posts that i am really hurt and i'm being more caucious now.

because i think it will be another break up. so i don't allow myself to trust or like anyone.

be happy he told you he wasn't ready to commit. most guys don't let you know that. he cares about you so he told you the truth. the forty year old woman he has know future with to big of a age difference.

my girls and i talk about a lot of things mostly they say men are JERKS! lol

but on a good note our dicussions have been about guys with tongue rings......(YEAH)

i also realized that love isn't suppose to feel this bad.

just a few things i have learned. can't say i'm doing well moving on but there are just a few things i know that i will never do again.

trust him- i will never ever allow myself to trust or fall into that trap again.

what i will do is LOVE myself and put myself first.

you have to decide what is best for you, but running away from your presonal problems is never good IMO.

lmao..... spawn if she has a bf and she hangs out with him. how is that teasing you?

ok spawn what would it be then? lol

ok a example would be like i love dancing so sometimes i dance really close to a guy just to see what his reaction might be. but it's kinda a turn on to me if he likes me dancing close to him.

i guess i mean more like flirting but kinda sexual.

question to the guys how does it make you feel when a girl is teasing you? good or fustrated? and girls do you like to tease guys? i think it's turn on to see what a guys reaction will be.

i think if you are having sex with more than one person you should have the balls to let the other persons know that. there is nothing wrong with having sex with more than one person as long as it protected sex and no one is getting a risk of a std.

it depends on the person and how mature they are? some people can remain good friends with exes some people can't.

this is a personal thread. I'm not sure how many will answer but it also a vent. after i went thru a terrible breakup i found myself sleeping with someone else only three days later. and i have slept with alot of other guys too. i don't know if i miss the sex i had with the ex or what it is. i feel really bad about myself and i don't know why i do this?

hello, i went out with a few of my friends to a club last saturday nite. i met this really nice guy. we both seem to hit it off really well. he asked me for my phone number. i gave it to him and he told me he would give me a call soon. i gave him a kiss goodnite and told him i couldn't wait to see him again. the next day i found out from a friend that he is married. why did he lie?

a lie is a lie. yes you have the right to be angry and yes you should confront him. let him no that you are not going to tolerate his lies no matter how big or how small. little lies usually turn intp big lies.

how many of you have been in a relationship that just left you saying wth? no closure no answers no idea what the hell went wrong.