SeaBisquit

just my 2 cents. it sounds like things were moving to quickly and he got frightened.

I suggust you talk to her about it first. I would put friendship before I would a guy. It sounds like you have been friends with her for awhile and you probably really don't know this guy to much.

hello, ok i met this guy about a month ago. I just found out that my best friend likes the same guy I do. He doesn't like her at all. He likes me and he asked me out on a date. I told him no because of my friend but I really like the guy and feel that he might be the one for me. I don't want to jeopordize my friendship with my best friend but I'm thinking about going out with him anyways. am I wrong to go out with him?

well, he is asking you to hang out with him. but i feel that if he wants to see you more it would be more on a one to one basis. i wouldn't consider it dating or anything like that if his buddies are always around. how do his buddies treat you? and if he is really into you he will be showing you off to all his buddies

why would he make such a promise? * * * * happens.....

i have heard so to many times that sometimes to a guy sex is just a act or a "one night stand" or "it means nothing"..

to most woman, not all, sex is more than just and act and because of that the woman often gets hurt.

talking about your penis, talking about her boobs or her butt and how hot you think she is. rating her anything less than a ten.

she's jealous that you are doing things to help other people and not spending all your time doing stuff for her.

try doing nothing. i mean reverse everything you have been doing and she how he reacts. i think you are doing to much for him.

sorry for another post. today, i'm going to see my ex for the first time in months. i talked with him this morning and he wants to meet with me tonight to talk in person. i'm really nervous because we had a really bad break up and when we talked on the phone i felt that there was alot of pain in his voice but i also feel he is going to blame me for the breakup. we brokeup because he cheated on me. but i'm sick of dating and i have known him for along time so i am considering getting back with him if that is an option. i just don't know what to say to him when i see him so i thought about writing things down on paper before we actually meet. anyways i will consider any advice or help on what i should or shouldn't say. thanks.

omg... i know exactly how you feel.

i don't know.... my mind tells me not to think about him. but i still have unresolved feelings for him

i didn't intend on hanging up on him. i was just so shocked to hear his voice that i freaked out. i was calling him to tell him i miss him.

hello, today i contacted my ex and he actually answered. i was so freaked out to hear his voice that i couldn't even talk. i never thought he would answer and when he did i totally freaked out and hung up. i tried calling back and he didn't answer. now i'm freaked out about it and i probably blew my one chance to tell him how i feel.

no it's not ok. i did that once with my ex. it was a bad decision and i didn't find anything he was upset for me not trusting him and it caused further problems in our relationship.

have any of you ever wrote your ex a letter telling them exactly how you feel? is this a good thing or a bad thing? i have been doing NC but now i'm thinking about writing a letter about how bad he has made feel. is it good to let it all out? or will i be making a fool of myself?

lol, that's pretty wild. she must have liked you tho, just curious is she good lookin?

this dude is hot!!! wow, i'm lucky.... now how can i keep him around?????

how long should a girl wait to have sex with a guy when they first start dating? do guys loose respect for a girl who chooses to have sex right away?

ok i saw your second post. did he do this in front of you?

what do you mean by not stopping him? he has his own mind. for some reason he chose her over you. sorry but he is bad.

well there was a episode last weekend ware a whole bunch of us were going out to a club. the guy i'm dating told me he was going to teach one of the girls how to dance because she doesn't know how....he wants to slow dance with her.

so i was like.... "How can she not know how to slow dance?" so I'm trying not to be naive but damn...

then the other day were in the mall and one of his friends makes a comment about this girl butt and so he has to say something about her butt too.

you like her but you don't love her. you also care about her alot but it's not love. marriage is about loving each other and spending and building a future together without love you have nothing but a friendship.

typical or red flag????????

Female dumper-dumpee (mutual breakup)

fustrated (don't understand what happened)

confused (we never actually said we are brokeup)

betrayed (can't believe he did what he did)