SeaBisquit

sorry i read your post wrong at first. but i do think this other girl does like you. and i don't blame your gf for being jealous. anytime your gf isn't ok with something you do talk about it first. meaning she didn't like you giving the other girl a ride home so then it's simple.... don't give the othe girl a ride home. you made your gf feel bad, dude.

how do you know for sure? it sounds like she is playing a game to me. that's just my thought on this.

i think you are way off and being mean. how can she always assume you are joking? maybe you make fun of her to much. and she is more offended by it then you think she is.

i would stay away from her. she's the one that is liking you. she is trying to find out if you like her back.

hi chai

she's not to much of a friend and i'm really upset with the whole bunch of them. thing is i'm new to all this dating garbage so they probably think i'm naive as hell.

yes. i'm not one for violence but it's high time you go kung-fu on his litttle nutsack.

i have been trying to find a guy that is interested in having a relationship with me. i haven't been able to find a guy that likes me for me they only like me for the way i look..... or are just looking for sex. what am i doing wrong???? i don't think i act like a tramp or anything, i just don't get it.

yes i know and the story gets better. the guy i liked ended up going home with my friend.

it's annoying as hell because everytime i go out and start dancin with a guy Jeff comes up and goes right behind me. then the guy i'm dancing with think that jeff and i are an item. i, know he does it on purpose and it's getting really annoying.

hello. last nite i went out to a club with a bunch of my friends. I met up with this guy that I had formerly had a one night stand with. I told the guy from the very beginning that we could be nothing more than friends because we were not right for each other. He said that was cool and agreed to just be friends.

last nite and a few times before I had the oppurtunity to meet someone that would be right for me. last nite, I met a really nice guy and while we were dancing ( Jeff, the guy I had a one night stand with) kept grabbing my butt and putting his hands around me. I kept telling him to knock it off and it was making the other guy quite jealous. I tried explaining that we were just friends. He got upset and said it looked like just wanted to be alot more than friends. I have talked with Jeff sevewral times and have told him to keep his hands off me. i don't know what more I could say to Jeff to get him to back off. but to make along story short i lost another good guy and this continues to happen.

yes, you should have had a pretty good idea that when he asked you to spend the night he was assuming the two of you would be engaging in sex.

i think you have all the answers you are looking for. it"s just what do you plan on doing now?

wow... you didn't even know this guy and you spent the weekend at his house on the first date. it's just sex. sorry but that what i think.

hi, i met this guy and we went on our first date. when he picked me up he asked me to pack a overnight bag because he wanted me to spend the night with him. as i was packing my bags i told myself no way was i going to sleep with him. we got to his place drank a few beers i got pretty drunk and guess what, ended up sleeping with him. we pretty much sat around the rest of the weekend in our underware watching football, i kept asking myself what the hell i was doing because i don't really know this guy..... but i really had alot of fun and felt like i had knew him for along time. he says that he really wants to see me again and that will have alot of fun in the future. i'm sitting her now hoping that he will call me because i really want to see him again, but i have a feeling he might just be wanting sex.

there are alot of guys that intentionally get girls drunk so that they think they might have a chance to have sex with them.

i have heard guys pun jokes about this in the bar. one more drink and i think i can get down her pants.

i agree.... go for the moment it feels right.

.... i'm going both ways on this topic. because i feel in the case of a younger more naive girl it is definitely the guys fault. and because of the persons tolerance to alchohol their judgement could be cloudy easily after one drink.

Is it the girls fault for getting so drunk? or is it the guys fault for getting her drunk? have a friend that went out with a guy and he got her really drunk she said she didn't even know what she was doing woke up in the morning and knew she had sex with him. what do you guys think on this topic?

shes2smart

quite interesting..... so how did you know it wasn't a rebound?

for the most part i guess i'm asking this question because i was told that guys can tell when you are vulnerable and have been thru a bad breakup.

oooops sorry.

bighair

i think you should have thought it out more first and thought about the outcome and how it would make you feel.. before going thru with it. because now your asking yourself alot of questions about the relationship and his intentions.

i don't think you did anything wrong but now he might see you as being easy. on the other hand i don't consider it exactly fair that a guy can have sex with anyone any where any time and not be consider easy. i really don't like the "double standards".

how long should someone wait to date seriously after a breakup? and how do you know it's not a rebound?

noooooooo. i agree with Dako.