SeaBisquit

to answer shellshocked question. yes, i'm in a LDR that's why i kinda think in a way i might be overreacting. it's just the F word bugs me. i think of myself as being better than that so i do feel disreaspected.

i don't think he would drive so far to see me just for sex, i might be wrong but he has a far drive. and he is a really good looking guy so it's not like he couldn't find someone where he is living. and other than that he does treat me well. he is a nice guy.

yeah, he called me this morning and said he couldn't wait to see me tomorrow. and that he couldn't wait to get me naked. and then he said it's going to be a "f" festival weekend.

i don't know that is what i'm wondering. i really don't mind the phone sex it's kinda a turn on but i don't like how he used the "f" word.

hi, i have a question about phone sex. I'm working on getting back together with my ex boyfriend and were suppose to spend the weekend together this weekend. It will be our first weekend together since we brokeup. We were brokeup for 4 months. He called me this morning and was talking about having sex with me and what we were going to do and stuff like that. he said something that kinda bothered me. He said that we were going to have a " F" festival. I don't like that word and I don't want to be used for sex. So i don't know if that is just a guys way of flirting around or if it's a red flag. thanks for your advice.

I guess I should mention that the breakup was because i brokeup with him to be with someone else.

we broke up 4 weeks ago. we saw each other almost everyday for the first two weeks of the breakup. i haven't seen him for a week and a half and haven't talked with him on the phone either. i'm trying to make him miss me by not seeing but i don't know if i'm doing the right thing.

another breakup....this time he says it's just for now. what does that mean?? i asked him does that mean it's over and he said just for now. i don't understand is it over?

ok this might sound dumb but I really have alot of problems when it comes to guys. and one day I asked a friend what is it that i do wrong, she said that I'm way to honest. i believe in telling my bf everything no matter how bad it is........ am I doing the wrong thing? should certain things be kept secret?

thanks dako. yeah i thought that. he says he loves me but lives with her. i believe that love conquers all.

hey there. take it from me stop the insecurities, your going to push him away. he gives you no reason not to trust him. he is with you not her. feel free to pm me i am going thru the same thing.

soryy everyone. but i'm so confused. I brokeup about a month ago with a guy that I knew for about 7 months. we lived together for 4 months. I was the one that brokeup with him I told him to move out. after he moved out i realized how much i loved him and wanted him back. we talked since and he told me he still loves me and always will. i asked him if it was over and he said just for now. the breakup was all over his wife (he was separated but not divorced.) she wouldn't leave us alone and i couldn't handle it anymore.

now he is back living together with her. he says he is very unhappy and he doesn't wear his wedding ring anymore. he says he is with her because his family adores her and they are very religious and think marriage is forever.

he says he can't just end his marriage for no reason at all because his family will disown him. she has cheated on him but he doesn't have the proof. just heresay. he says he is stuck in his marriage, but he doesn't want to be there. is this all crap or not?

for me, i fell out of love. it was pretty much unfixable at that point.

sorry for posting so much. but i don't know what to do. i was with this guy who was sperated from his wife. his wife cheated on him several times that was the reason for the breakup. we lived together for 4 months. we have been broke up for 2 weeks. he has been at my house almost everyday since the breakup and he tells me he is very much in love with me. i am in love with him too. he got back with his wife because of the family pressure. his family is very religious and believe that marriage is forever regardless of the circumstances. he is very unhappy in his marriage and we want to be together. i feel like (______) for loving a married man. someone help me sort this out please~!

annie,

he didn't slap me i slapped him

he has a tattoo on his arm with my name on it. i thought it was serious with us. he says he can't get past me slapping him. would a guy go so far as to get a tattoo to make his wife jealous? tattoos are for life.

hope,

to be honest his wife has bi-polor disorder and she is off her meds. she is crazy and harasses everyone. he went back to her because she won't leave him alone.

ok then he told me he just needs some space for now

things ended because his wife would not leave us alone. he was filling for a divorce with her and she went bolistic. we got into a big fight over her because i couldn't deal with it. now he's says he loves me but he doesn't know what he wants.

hi, my bf and i just broke up. he told me he wanted some space but says he still loves me. i don't know what to think right now. doesn't it usually mean when someone ask for space that there over with you?

he was separated from her for only a a few weeks before he met me.

i think he will go back to her sometimes because so far she has been bothering him or me almost every day and he doesn't do amything to stop her from bothering me.

we get into lots of agruments over her and he tells me he wouldn't have my name tattooed on his arm if he didn't love me. sometimes i think he got the tattoo just to make her jealous.

hello. i have been seeing this guy for about three month. He is still married but separated from his ex wife. She is the soon to be ex-wife from hell and sometimes i think alot about ended the relationship because of her. She has stalked my home called on his cell and mine at least 20 times a day. Not one day that we have been together has she left me or him alone. My bf and I both got tattoos for x-mas with each other names on the tattoo. I thought it was a really cute way to show our love for each other. She found out he got a tattooo with my name on his arm and had to go out and get one to with his name on her arm. She says she still loves him and thinks she can get him back. I get mad at my bf alot and we get into lots of fights because i feel like he can do something to get her to stop harrrasing me but he doesn't.

Now my bf and I have been talking about having a baby together, I really want to have his child. But I'm afraid if i get pregnant, I will be under alot of stress and it would be harmful to the baby. and if she finds out i'm having his baby she will be more physcho then she is already. His soon to be ex-wife has bi-polor disorder and she doesn't take her medication and some of the things she does is really crazy. I'm also afraid she might hit me or do something to make me loose the baby if I do get pregnant. any advice?

i haven't been able to do anything with my friends since we have been together. i'm afraid i'm going to lose all my friends.

thanks. i was also just wondering in general if it really does bother guys if their gf goes out with her friends?

ok, i'm posting again about my boyfriend. my friends and I are all single and before I met my boyfriend we use to go out a few times a week together. one of my friends actually dated my boyfriend and when they broke up we got together. my boyfriend doesn't like me going out with any of my friends especially because of the one he use to date. he thinks she still likes him and she will cause trouble between us. well, i tried to go out with some of my other friends and he got mad and told me i couldn't go out by myself. he said i could only go out if he went with me. i told him that was ok. we went out and got there before any of my friends did. while we were waiting for my friends he was saying weird stuff to me like so and so don't like you. but everybody here likes me. and then when my friends finally show up he said it was time to leave. so we left. since i have been with him i haven't been able to do anything with my friends. he says it's because all my friends hang out at the bar and there no good for me. i'm just wondering if he is trying to control me?

i have thought that too. that he is trying to make her feel bad by living with me because she cheated on him......... and that would make it even between them.

i know for sure that she cheated on him. she works with a friend of mine and his mother was the one that confirmed that his wife had been cheating on him for nine years.