SeaBisquit

I don't know what to think right now. My bf has asked me for a break in our relationship. he says it's not a breakup just a break. we been having alot of problems and he feels if we don't take a break we will end up hating each other. We have lived together for the past 8 months and have known each other for almost two years. I have to move out of our home during this break and he says he wants to continue to see me. I think i'm in denial of what's really going to happen and i'm hoping things will change. I don't know if I should remain in contact with him or if I should start NC and get on with my life. I'm looking for advice on this situation if anyone can help me.

Is there life after a break? my bf has asked for a break in our relationship. he feels that there is to much stress between us right now and if we don't make a break were going to end up hating each other. I'm so confused right now, who ever actually gets back together after a breakup. he thinks we both need space to get our lifes back in order. i kinda think it's just a way to get rid of me.I don't know what to expect now, I'm so confused.

yeah i'm scared to say how i feel. i think i'm scared of the answers i might get. i know i need to toughen up, but i kinda feel emotionally abused and damaged.

this is so confusing, we have been living together for almost a year. at first we could talk to each other about anything, but that changed a few months ago. he started talking to me less and less, we do nothing together ever. he calls me from work and we talk breifly and that's about it as far as the communication goes. When he"s at home he's really moody, says he has his ex on his mind. he says he hate's her but the other day he said something about her that really bothered me. He likes long hair and when he left his ex her hair was short now she is growing it out. he says he never looks at his ex when he sees her but he made a comment about her hair that he likes it.

I agree, i have thought about leaving him many times, if i did leave i wouldn't even tell him i was leaving. that's how bad the communication is. i just feel like he wouldn't miss me. why bother telling him.

sometimes i think he still has deep feelings for his ex gf, he talks about her alot. sometimes he says bad things about her and sometimes he says things about the way she looks. i feel like he hates me because he really wants to be with her.

he came out of a really bad relationship before he met me and i think it's hard for him to trust women. i'm really confused too. sometimes i think he hates me just because i think he hates women in general, we don't have as much fun as we use to. everything is so confusing. he's also told me that he thinks he is boring and ugly.

My boyfriend says some stuff that is hard to understand so i was wondering if someone chould help me with this> Last night i asked my bf if he hates me or if he hates life and then he said he is confused to whether or not he he hates life or not. what dose this mean?

thanks do you think i should break up with him and find someone else?

i did what you said and did not call him for a while and then he called me and i acted like he acted when i call him and then my friend called him and he was acting like a jerk towards her. so i talked to him for a while and he asked me to call another time because he was playing a game on the computer so i asked what was more important me or a game and he hanked up on me. What should I do ?

Why are guys always attracted to the girls with a beautiful body and big boobs?

thankyou for the replies, my boyfriend seems to conviently forget everything he does, and acts like he did nothing wrong.

What do you when you call your boyfriend and he doesn't want to talk to you, and he's acting like a jerk?