SeaBisquit

he also will not let me see my friends. which my friends think is because they will tell on him.

yeah i think i'm might not be the only one that is hurting here.

ok so should i ask him to move out? until things get resolved.

ok they don't have any children together. his daughter is from another marriage. he also moved in with me two weeks after he left his wife. he never asked if he could move in he just did. then he told me that he loves me.

he says he can't do anything about her going to see his mom. and i feel thats unfair because i can't go there because of her.

a few months. thats it. but they have been separated a few times before. and yes i feel somewhat sorry for her in a sense. but she cheated on him all thru out there marriage and that is why he left her.

I know how you feel. I have been there. In time you will start to heal and eventually find someone that you have become interested in. sometimes i believe chemistry can change. but for the most part i believe when it's love that the chemistry is there from the very beginning.

hi, so I have been together with this guy for about a month and a half. he is separated from his wife. but his wife doesn't leave him alone. she calls him about 10 to 20 times a day. i finally answered the phone and told her not to call anymore. so then she stopped calling him and started driving by my house and actually got the nerve to knock at my door and ask him to come back home to her. he told her not to come to my house anymore she stopped doing that. so now she visits his parents daily and goes to all of his daughters basketball games. so now i'm not going to his families for the holidays because she will be there and i wasn't allowed to go to the basketball game that she was at. his parents won't tell her to stay away from their son or their house and he doesn't do anything about it either. am i over reacting?

I am going thru the same thing only my bf said it only after a few weeks. freaked me out of course the feelings are pretty strong between us, but still how can you fall in love with someone so quickly?

vandgsmom

it's more like he is asking me to do things i have never done before. i have never used any kind of toys in the bedroom before. it's normal for him and he has used them in his past relationships. this is my first time so i kinda feel like a virgin to sex toys.

ok, in a new relationship and having trouble telling my boyfriend what i like and don't like in bed. he has asked me to do somethings that make me feel uncomfortable and i don't know how to tell him to i don't like it. the other night he asked me to do some things i have never done before and after we had sex i started crying because i wasn't comfortable with it. how can i become more comfortable with him?

i met him about three months ago at a bar he drove me home and we had a few drinks at my house. I never told him if I was married or single. He was seprated and having lots of trouble with his marriage. I wrote it off as a one time fling. then i would see him drive by my house alot and i would always look away because i was embarrassed that i brought home someone from the bar. About a month ago he started fooling around with one of my friends. I knew they just hooked up for sex. We were all sitting at the bar together it was really akward because my friend didn't know that I had been with him. My friend ended up dumping him that night. He came up to me and told me that he does remember me and that he has been trying to see me for along time but i have been avoiding him. He left his wife a few days after. I told him that I would not date a married man even if he had troubles in his marriage. He says I'm not a rebound. Part of me thinks it's fate another part is waiting for the BIG BOMB to drop.

hello, I met this guy about two weeks ago and he has been coming to see me alot. He stays at my house alot and we seem to get along really well. The other day he told me that he loves me and he knows that it has only been a couple weeks. I told him that I love him back I think I really do but I"M kinda scared because he said it so fast. Is it possible for a guy to fall in love with a girl so soon?

yesterday my new boyfriend introduced me to his parents. i overheard his mother say that i looked like a real fluzy. i don't know what it means but i'm sure it isn't anything nice. can someone tell me what it means?

noooo. it will put you thru hell. chances are you will be sitting around forever waiting for him to file.

i know in some cases it doesn't matter. but i wish i would have waited.

first off don't change to make some girl like you. and i don't believe that girls like guys that are bad. those kind of relationships are unhealthy ones. chances are the girl isn't very happy. you got what it takes to make a girl happy. be proud of that.

i think we definitely have a connection. but i feel i ruined it by sleeping with him to soon. i feel that he is not going to respect me much.

hi , i know there has been alot of having sex on the first date threads. but this is different so.... i find myself meeting really nice guys. and i think in order to please them i need to have sex with them to make them happy. afterwards i feel like crap and wish that i hadn't done what i did. now i really like this guy alot and i had sex with him on the first date. now i think he is going to expect sex everytime we get together. i don't know how to make him respect me. i know sometimes it doesn't matter. but really i'm a nice person and i want him to know that.

maybe you are just flattered that she likes you. but don't take it any farther than that. you are both married. if you cannot work with her on a professional level only i would suggest working in another department.

don't even think about her. she is married.

i agree with tigris he's making a fool out of you. three times that alot of forgiveness. most people don't forgive the first time cheating. your allowing it to happen.

you sound way too involved in this guy"s life. put yourself first.

ok, you just need to talk to your gf more, about what she likes and doesn't like. but don't give up things that you like for gf.

toxic sweater

i think your gf is probably more mad with the other girl then she is with you. when ever stuff like this happens try to put yourself in your gf"s place. like, how would you feel if your gf had given a guy a ride home?