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Well the money was put towards my tuition fees. I have no problem paying it back to her; i just can't believe that she asked for that money. After ten months of NC this is what she asked for? I never thought she would ask for the money or it would be an issue. Life is full of surprises.

Hi all, Long story short…. 4 years of ralationship. Broke up 10 months ago. Maintaing NC for 9 months. She got married 4 months after she broke up. For more details link removed I borrowed some money from my ex when we were in relationship. I borrowed the money for me but the idea was for our future. I have borrowed it before and have always paid her back in time. Due to the breakup, I simply do not want to deal with my past since it is so painful. Honestly speaking, I have lost lots of money indirectly because of her too and I do not want to get into the argument right now with her (by the way she is quite rich). The way she has sent me the email for money really hurt me. I am still in love with this woman but I do not want her back at all, since, she is all married and too much damages. Now that I think back, I fell that she has used me for her won advantages and everything we did together was a big acting. In past ten months she has sent me multiple emails for different purposes but I never replied her back because I want to maintain NC. I just simply want her out of my life and not contact me by any means. I am also pissed at myself that I cannot get over this girl and I do not deserve this…. What should I do? Should I simply ignore her email? OR Tell her to let it go and not to contact me?

Hi all, 4 years of ralationship. Broke up 9 months ago. Maintaing NC for 8 months. She got married 4 months after she broke up. I have access to my ex's email account. Personally, I do not want to check her email but it appears she did not change her email password. I wish I could tell her to change her email pass. I am maintaining NC for more than 8 months but still I am not over her. I know she got married four months after we broke up (she broke up because her parents could not accept my family). Sometimes I miss her so much that I check her email to see what she is up to. You know what, checking her email and talking to her over the phone is almost the same thing. It harts so much and this is one reason I do not check her email. I know our path will never cross again. But I simply can not get over her. I wonder how much long I have to live like this???

mike-e-mike, The population of this planet is around seven billions and you will probably make couple of hundred friends in your lifetime, right??? I think you are better off without one friend (your ex). I say don't contact her. If you can live one year without her, than you can live one more decade without her. Your pain and your love is unique in your own way, nobody in this forum will understand that. Be firm with the decision you made one year ago. I believe you know, what is the right thing to do. There are lots of other things in this world, learn to love those. Don't email her…. Good luck.

Hi ComputerGuy, Do what you feel like. But do not make any big or major decisions that you may regrate later. Good luck.

Thanks michelemybell and kungfumaster. I am doing everything i can to go on with my life. But no matter what i do or where i go she is always in my mind. I believe it is going to take years to get over her. May God be with me all the way. Thanks once again.

I just wanted to express my experience in this forum. I had a long distance relationship for 4 years. Even though we were far apart we maintained contact on regular basis and visited each other at least once every two months. We were seriously in love. When we both completed our bachelor degree, we decided to let our family know for our marriage. I have matted her family, but due to high class (rich "my ex") and low class (middle class "me") her family did not accept my family nor me. Today she is back home and I am still in Canada. She has broken up with me 8 months ago and I have maintained NC for last 6 months. Six months ago when I called her, she told me that, she asked her parents to look for a groom (arranged) and now she is officially married, the social ceremony will take place in couple of days. I knew this "rich/poor" issue would be a problem and she always assured me that she will take care of it. But when time came she simply brock it off. I am in so much pain. Even though, we never got married officially but we always acted like one. I feel, she has left me for no reason, a reason that I cannot accept. She was the first and only woman I have had a relationship and fallen in love. I just simply cannot take her off of my mind and life sucks without her. What should I do???