Chelseablue

EXACTLY my point shroudedsorrow24 - physical attraction comes before personality every time. I feel sorry 4 the 700 pound midget, poor guy I bet he's lonely !!

To Shinobie I'm not pushing anything onto her, I've been waiting for 3 months for her - granted you do have a point about thinking with my small head. She isnt my GF she's a good m8 who told me that she wanted a "sex buddy" and I offered and she said "yes". She's the same as me she doesnt want to be in a relationship and have sex as we both like being single. To Goddess4ever I think your ex BF who dumped you because you were a virgin was a complete fool, you could have experimented together and become closer. I think she's building sex up on a pedistal to make it something it isnt and will be disappointed after her first time, I'm just saying that I think its less of a big deal than she's making it out to be. I dont want to b her first time I want to just add her to my list, as I already have a GF 8) !

Well 2 B honest recently Ive been with 2 girls - Girl 1 - Stunning, absoloutely beautiful but no real personality and we dont have much in common but we can have a good laugh sometimes. Girl 2 - Average in looks, we get along and have a real good time but she's kind of shy and unreliable. Even though I get along with girl 2 more I choose girl 1 everytime because of the fact that even though theres problems there I am under no illusions about our relationship its purely fun between two people that are attracted to each other and is less emotionally involving than girl 2. To Protex I would choose girl no. 2 because she's independent but I think youve gone to two extreme ends of the spectrum, its more than likely that the stunningly beautiful girl will have a more experienced head on her shoulders after all the attention she has received as well as be more independent.

I'm not in it just for one reason, all I'm saying is that looks I think looks are more important than personality and wondered what the women on this site went for - either looks or personality ? Surely you look at a person and if your attracted to them you talk to them and get to know their personality. I'm pretty sure that you would be put off getting to know someone's personality if they were only 3 foot tall !

To be honest at my age, 18. Its not about a long term relationahip its just a bit of fun. Thats why looks are more important as I tend to go for the "best" looking girls - they may be more demanding etc etc. but at the end of the day its all about bragging rights !

With my GF she gets the sensation to pee then a few seconds later she reaches orgasm. When you get the sensation to feel that you need to pee, try stimulating yourself more and you will reach orgasm, saying that everybodys different so what works for my GF might not work for you.

Hiya everyone! I was just wondering what exactly girls look for in men. As an 18 year old male I know this might sound shallow but I go roughly 90% on looks, if I'm not physically attracted to them, then why bother. What exactly do girls go for. Is it personality over looks, vice versa, or a combination of the two ?

Personally I like one anytime I'm offered one ! Lasses that have give me BJ's will ALWAYS have a special place in my heart.

I think the main problem with her is that everybody at school knows she is a virgin and there seems to be pressure on her to lose it, she is very shy.

By the sounds of it your not physically attracted to him so personally I would leave it, if you like his personalty be his friend and leave it at that. You may be having difficulty talkin to him face to face because you could feel nervous about what has been propositioned, e.g "hanging out".

1 thing I forgot to mention - she's a virgin, I'm not and she's 17. Cheers

Is losing your virginity a big thing for a girl ? I know a girl who says that she really, really would like to sleep with me (we go out clubbing etc.) but she's really nervous and says that she doesn't think she's ready. She says that sometimes she wants to but more often than not doesn't want to because she isnt "up for it". Personally as an 18 year old I'm up for it 95% of the time, it's probably my hormones ! Is losing it a big thing ? because personally I don't think it is, your opinions please

I mite aswell start from the beginning ! In Febuary a girl called Heather at college started talking to me and hanging around with my friends group, she got my phone number and we talked out of college - 1 night we talked from 10pm until 2am and we had college together the next day ! She never mentioned that we text/phoned each other to people at school. Then we started going out clubbing together and having a laugh, 1 of my m8es found out (who also liked her) and told her that I said that she was "frigid" - she stopped texting me, talking to me and was really nasty to me - she even admitted getting off with another lad just to make me feel jealous. Anyway I sorted the problem out and she found out that my m8 had lyed and that I never said that about her. I asked her out and she said that she liked this other boy - Kyle and that she'd fancied him for ages and that she liked me as a m8. As time passed we were m8es and she did the same to kyle as she did to me - txtin etc. They went out 4 meals, cinema etc (which i never did with her) and I got a GF called Charlotte (I dumped her because I really wanted 2 b with Heather), Heather started textin me askin what was goin on etc and wanted me to go out clubin with her, we went out and she slept at my house - we talked all night and had a really good time. The next weekend we went out and got more "serious" and we nearly slept together - it was decided not to because my mum was at home. She's adamant that she doesnt want a BF but wants some to have "friendly Sex" with (She is still a virgin so how does she know thats what she wants?), I offered and she said yes but always seems to treat me horrible and nasty. She says that now she knows Kyle that he's "boring" and she keeps going out and getting off with lads. I asked her what she wanted and she never even answered me - the only problem is she said I was nasty to 1 of her m8es and thats it, its so confusing ! Does anyone know what this girl wants from me, or any of us lads ?