Superhero08

I'm a guy but for some reason or another everyone i've dayed have been girls I had been friends with for a while and we just kind of fell into it. A few days ago I met a girl and that night we ended up kissing. The next night was the same but that night we were drunk. The next night I called her but it was late and I was drunk so it was good she didn't pick up. SO tonite we talked and made plans to meet again. I just feel like I'm, being too forward. I really dig her and soon we'll both be leaving for school break so I feel like I want to spend a lot of timne before we go, I just feel callingf her everyday. Though I do know we feel pretty strongly for eachother. I don't know I just feel awkward being so aggresive, is that ok.

Its hard to tell with some girls. I had a friend (now my best friend) who liked me for a good 9 months but i never even knew about. She told me after the fact.

So my friends and I go out a lot and party. Being a 20 year old guy thats pretty obvious but heres the problem. When my friends and I go out and i've had a few drinks, i get girls numbers. I've prolly gotten 10 numbers in the last 5 months, and given out my number 4 times. The problem is I never follow through with anything. If a girl calls me then i never call her back. Or I never call that girl whos number I got. The only relationships i've been in are relationships that developed from a previous friendships and I never went on dates with those girls. I just don't really know how to make that call if y'know what I mean. So i met this girl at a party I through and I wanna know what I should say when I call her. What exactly is a par for the course kinda thing to say?

In my experience with this, I would say the ets way to go about is just say to him 'Can we talk?' and then just tell him. If you don't bring it up it'll eat you uip insides so just put yourself out there. Its hard to do I know from experience but if you just do it you'll feel a lot better. People also get scared that things will get weird but you shouldn't worry about that. As long as after you tell him you still make the effort to be friends you will be.

Just ask her out man. Ya got nuthin to lose. You may think you do but you don't, which is a difficult lesson to learn but you have to learn it sometime, the best way is to just put yourself out there.

you have two options...a) leave it where it is as friends b) atempt to break him and his lady up...this I find is not a good idea...a friend of mine did this and i was not happpy in thge end...just me though everybody is different

So...i've known this girl for awhile and weve always enjoyed eachothers company. So tonite we were at a party and were talkin (me and her and another friend) and were enjoying things. So I tell her that i am having a party in a couple of weeks and she gives me her number. I totally intend on calling her for the party in question but was this in any way an invitation for dating. As far as I am aware she has no boyfriend and we have (had) a good time so i am slighly confused as to her message. Any ladies have any idea what she is tryin' to pull here.

I don't wanna be really rude or anything but you do kinda come off as (to say the way you put it) a smart-ass. If only by the fact that you said "because I know everything", or "I have more skills under my belt at 16 than ost people that are in their 20's". You really can't say something like that. The truth of it is that you only have so much experience in life. Nothing can compare to having experience. I find girls don't really dig guys who are over over confident in an over the top kind of way. And maybe you shouldn't make it a point to try and be like you're forty. Sure that'll get respect from some people who are older than you but young people just wanna have fun and that reflects the people they wanna hang out with. I have a friend like you who acted very grown-up all the time and was good at a lot of things. But he never got a lot of luck with girls his age. So after he hung out with me and my friends for awhile he really loosened up and now hes a lot happier for it (and his girlfriend). Basically it seems you might wanna loosen up, you'll have plenty of time to be forty when you're forty. Try and be sixteen for a while. You have about eight or ten years of your life to be young and crazy and do pretty much whatever you can get away with. Don't blow those years by trying to grow up.

I'm like you to, by the time you get to college you'll be a lot happier. In high school girls usually go out with total jerks and by the time you are in college they look for guys like you (I'm one of them myself, raised by two sisters) guys raised by sisters make the best boyfriends because they care and understand.

I think she likes you. Brushing her hand through your hair and the eye contact are definate give aways. You should just go for it, she may be looking for a way out of her current relationship. Besides if you don't try you'll never know and never knowing is way worse in the long run. By the way she may have been going to see "Reel Big Fish" its a ska band.