NightBlossom

doesn't seem like it's really worth the trouble, and i'm pretty sure she is with this other guy. take the easy way out while you still can

Sounds like your doing the right thing by taking it slow and being her friend. The longer you be there for her the more she is going to forget that other guy, build some new memories for her to remember. Give her time. Just try to keep in contact a little bit more, it'll give it that relationship feeling while still being friends. Best of luck to you