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WithLove

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  1. Butthole Surfers. Wow. Goldfrapp - Crystalline Green
  2. I feel like.... I am happy that you seem happier..... but I don't think it's right for this man, who seems to be drawing closer to you and you're starting to share intimate things with. You're still unhealed from S.... and starting something with someone else isn't the way to get over that hurt.
  3. D, just end it. You aren't ready for a relationship, anyway, and he's jerking you around along with other options. He's not what you're looking for right now.
  4. I don't think you're getting too much out of this at the moment, so for that reason alone I'd say to back out of it. But you know yourself better than we do. I think that stretching seeing someone into the 7th date category means you are, in fact, dating. Do you feel ready for that?
  5. I know exactly how you feel.... especially in regards to timing.... remember my up north friend? We've completely withdrawn from each other. Haven't spoken in over a month. Wrong timing completely. Be kind to yourself, Reinvent... lean on your sons for support.... and go out with your girlfriends. Healing with come with time
  6. I think.... if you're not making each other a priority (which you don't seem to be)... and you are purely looking for some male company to hang out with on occasion... then it's okay. But if he starts getting more attached, and you know you're not ready... that's when you back out. I think it's good for you to get out and about with male company sometimes. As long as you're not making promises and bouncing checks your heart can't cash.
  7. I meant how you were feeling when you went out a few weeks ago to how you're feeling now that you've had a vacation and spoken with your therapist.
  8. The Heavy - Short Change Hero AKA - the song in the beginning of Borderlands 2.
  9. I don't think a drink would hurt. Maybe you can use it to compare how you're feeling now compared to how you were then.
  10. Ha, thanks!! Looking forward to reading about your adventures, too!!
  11. I don't get why there's such hate for cargo shorts??
  12. Today I used the sentence "hey, you left your sausage out" at work. Then giggled like a child.
  13. You're still in the part where you're blaming yourself for not recognizing the signs sooner. But you'll get better.
  14. Sounds like a recipe for some man bashing. Maybe that's what you need right now...?
  15. I'm glad you have these resources available to help you through it.
  16. Reinvent... I'm sorry I haven't replied. I don't know what to say. I'm really sorry that you're hurting. I don't know how to make it better. Just wanted you to know I'm still reading. ((hugs))
  17. I'm your girlfriend, not your respiratory system! Hahaha!
  18. He's just going to string you along. All of your conversations with him after the break up.... He never mentioned reconciliation. You're better than this. Block him and start your healing.
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