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aggierocker thats a good idea. i like it..my bf doesnt know how to get my bra off either..i always have to do it myself

besides, i thought me being a virgin for so long and asking HIM to be my first (several times) would be a compliment for him. apparently he didnt take it like that

tylercdurden2004 , its not that am not hapy with what he did, am just surprised. shouldn't i be?

thanks guys you just made me love him more! i mean i did respect what he did but i was surprised he wasnt tempted to got for it even when i insisted..isnt it usually the girls who do that? would you personally do it?

i am still a virgin and have been with my bf for a month now. last night we were in bed and things got very hot and i asked him to do it, but he refused. he said we didnt have protection . i asked him if he would have done it if we did have protection, and he said that he thinks its still early for us.. he's the first guy who really knows how to sexually get me going and i've never been with anyone who made me feel the way he did last night, and thats probably why am still a virgin..but anyway, the thing is that i kind of asked him to penetrate around 5-6 times and he declined all the time ..then he stopped and he said he thought my behaviour was irresponsible and immature. is he right? i was really surprised that he turned me down..i thought girls usually decide if its early or not..guys please any feedback on this? and girls too..anything like this ever happened to you? am still baffled.

hey guys u r just fabulous. seems ur experts in this! well, i will try to do as u said, keep off for a while, but i think i'll go gradual , like decreasing our outings and sometimes not answering his calls. i dont want to break him . he is really emotional. anyway, this was great advice!! i used to discredit the NC theory, but now i totally go for it. i sued to think that if 2 ppl break up, then they can still be friends sicne they have decided on this. but ho ho ho!! what a surprise. this is my first break up by the way. so excuse me on being a bot confused. am 20. anyway, thnx again, and i'll still like info comin in

thnx charmed. i think u got great reasoning here, and it applies. and indeed i ahve been trying over the last month to keep myself away from him, to decline he invitations and stuff. but he doesnt understand it. he says i ma being mean and that he doesn deserve that treatment after all the good he's been doing. he has never done me wrong, and he sees it quite unimaginable thati ask him to just go and solve it all by himself, he thinks it being selfish on my side..that am inconsiderate. and he says that if i start seeing someone else, he'll probably not be my friend anymore coz he cant. so that solves it for him. you think its inevitable for him to think am selfish if i do this? he's not ready to understand , or let go. and he says I should give him time to get over it. but i dont think his way will get him over anything, or CAN IT with time? am so desperate. everytime i call it off, say its stop, he sobs and almost begs me not to do that,not to be mean,to let him at least have connection with me. and my heart softens. what can i do? plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

hi girl, listen am a girl too, and i have experienced this. look i think u still dont really like this guy, but the fact that HE walked out is the thing thats bothering you, making u anticipate his calls and stuff. believe me, if he calls and says he wants to go out with u again, u'll be confident again and u wont evern say yes. its all about wanting to be # 1. and it aint necessarily bad. its normal. you just have to come to terms with what u feel, understand that its just some kind of jealousy, and that its selfish to an extent. u said u thought there was no chemistry! and now suddenly there is when u saw that girl with him? i know u might think now that no, if he calls me i'm gonna definitely say yes and we'll have a great time. but the truth is that when u know that he's the one after u, and ur the one who could stop it whenever u like, its done. u wont feel that desire for him anymore. why? because u just felt left out. you dont want HIM, you want HIM to be after YOU. so let it go, and go find someone else, someone you'll really like, and who'll like u enough not to date another girl at the same time. sorry for the bitter truths, but this is it. soryy.. XXXX

hi. a month ago, i broke up with my 5-month boyfriend who ADORES me.i just stopped feeling right with him, but i do appreciate his feelings for me and his personality as a whole. he is a great person to be a friend. and i told him when we broke up that i would like it if we stayed in touch. he didnt mind. the thing is , ever since, he says he accepts the situation , but all i see is him trying to cling more on to me. he still calls me everyday more than 3 times,& asks me out everynight . but he CLAIMS he is doing that just as a friend. that he doesnt want to cut off everything between us. he says i was the best thing he ever had, and that no matter what happened, he still wants to keep some kind of connection or friendship with me. i feel complimented by this, but i dont think this is a good way for him to get over me. he says its the BEST way for him, and he is so convinved by it. my only fear is that if i meet someone new, how will he take it? he is so used to being with me often!it will be hard on him. i always tell him that maybe we should stop seeing each other a while, so that he'd get used to the idea. he just refuses and says that'll be just torture for him. i know he is so honest in how he feels about me, but i am confused now about what the best way is for him to get over me now? he refuses to be" no contact" and he insists that if he continues seeing me he'll gradually fade away his feelings because we'll be treating each other as friends only. CAN THAT BE TRUE? i am afraid he wont be able to, and that eventually he'll get hurt when i get involved with someone else. PLZ TELL ME HOW SHOULD I HANDLE HIM? i cant tell him to stop seeing me, he " literally" goes crazy. ANY PREVIOUS EXPERIENCES? ADVICE? thanks a lot guys...

hey guys, do u think a guy should get his girl to climax b4 him or the opposite/? i have read that he should get her there b4 him, but why? can't he do it after he's had his orgasm?? i know girls take much longer to have an orgasm... one more thing, do u think one partner shuld concentrate on the other till he climaxes and then the other do the same? or they should do it simultaneously? in ur experience, whats better ? thnx guys...

so i understand that the amount has nothing to do with the intensity, just with the frequency of coming... ok so guyz how can i tell he's having an intense orgasm? any physical clues? or just body language?? thnx for ur posts, very helpful..

so i get it that even if he's having a really intense orgasm, he could just ejaculate a little amount if he had been masturbating b4??

can the guys in here plz tell me if a guys orgasms range in intensities? i mean sometimes i feel that my bf cums stronger than other times. also does the amount of cum indicate how strong the orgasm is? or its just independent?

i'm a woman and yes me too, i find that i am more inclined to wanting sexual activity during my period. i think its hormones as buffalosoldier said. so dont worry, its normal. i think sex would be a lot messier with blood down there, but if u find it ok, then go for it. let ur gf get her way

last night my bf and i got hot n heavy, he has not given me oral sex yet, though i always do. it didnt bother me at all before, i actually preffered it that way, anyway, so last night we were into it, and he kind of bent down and started foolin around my thighs with his mouth while fingering me. we were in a 69 position , yet he didnt touch my vagina orally, he kept on the manual thing. i got really wet, so maybe he wasnt tempted to go there and get all slimy on his face? i dont know?? why didnt he use his mouth ? any explanations fro the guys??? ps: he doesnt like to cum in my mouth

hey i just need some advice on what to do rigth after my bf cums.i mean after a handjob or bj, we usually cuddle and stuff.but i wanna know if i should keep on touching him" there" or stroking him gently as a post-bj massage?? or does it hurt him if i keep my hands down there? should i remove them completely? i find it really sexy to keep on touching him after he's done. any insights?

last night my bf was fingering me and we didnt go deep at all coz i'm still a virgin, and i wanna stay that way.anyway,so i got all wet and stuff,and i came.then when i went back home,there was still that clear discharge,but there was also a little blood discharge with it. just one time.i would like to know what the possible causes of this might be, and is it normal??? does it mean my hymen is broken? my bf says it could be due to an intense orgasm. any insights on the subject ??? ps: can any of the girls around tell me how i can check myself to know if i'm still a virgin?? thnx.

thanks really buffalosoldier for your insight, i didnt even occur to me. its a possibility. i will try to inspect more on it. will keep u up with it. anyone else would like to help?? anyone had a similar experience?

hi,i am 20 and my bf and i engage in oral sex a lot. when we started i used to let him cum in my mouth, and it doesnt bother me at all, but he then surprised me by asking me to stop that and to allow him to cum outside my mouth, becoz it causes him infection.he said it has happened with him before and that why he is sure its from the exact act of "CUMMING in my mouth". he wants oral sex , and now he removes my head before he cums directly. i dont know if his excuse is valid, i didnt believe it at first, so i kept on giving him a bj until he came in my mouth. but now he is bothered and says i dont understand. i have stopped, but i still would like to know if simply letting him cum in mouth can be a reason for irritation or infection for him, knowing that he enjoys a bj and doesn't object to it. HELP???