BreArna

They are all very nice with so much emotian! i love poems that u can jus feel the emotian when u read them.. Very good

Do you have children?

If you have tried to do other stuff to get over him and move and you still arent then im not sure what to do , sometimes it takes alot of time to heal and move on especially considering you were with him for so long, have you considered counselling ? because it may be worth a try and i think ull find it very helpful.

I hope things get better for you soon and im here to talk if you need it !

Its cool i wasnt trying to attack you, i was just like what!? he is married how can u tell him to leave her, im a strong beleiever that marriege is forever. Anyway all is cool

sweetharmony they are married! you cant just walk in and outa a marriage, its meant to be forever!

Anyway i think u should try and work on it, do everything possible to make things better, read Dr Phils relationship rescue , anything..Then if after uve done everything possible then and only then should u consider a divorce.

Have you seen a docter and they actually said you had this ? I know a few guys that get sorta pimply warty looking things on there privates and they think its some disease when infact its just something that happens and isnt a disease at all!

But in the case you do have HPV then you should for sure tell this girl about it because she could be giving it to others

That is such a sweet poem! =D>

was there ever any chemistry between yous ?

Thats beautiful, I am going through a friendship break down at the moment and that poem made me cry.

What do u mean.. moved back in with you ? Why wasnt she living with you in the first place ?

Whats her feelings on all this ?

does yoga clear the mind ? i thought it was jus an excerise lol

Id like to see if anyone knows how it works aswell cos thatd help me aswell

Good luck anyway!

I agree totally with Michael2

You may be able to forgive her in time but right now she has done the wrong thing and needs to pay for that or else she will keep on going disrespecting you.

Depends how close you are with ur ex.. Usually if he does little things like talk to u first on messenger.. text u first and jus give u a smile for no reason are signs that he cares about you or he wouldnt bother doing any of that.. Sorry im not much help lol

Seriously its not about who you would miss, cos youd be dead right ?

THink about ur family and friends that lives would be soo effected if u did something like that and what itd do to them ?

She sounds so confused.. seriously i dont know what u should do .. maybe NC is a good idea but it could also be a very bad idea

Sorry i cant help you

Im not sure.. if yous are really good friends then id think long and hard about starting something more with her.. Because more then likely it wont last forever.. so would u rather go out with her for awhile or have a good friend that lasts ?

i dont think ur over her either, jus by the way u talk about her.. But if u dont want her back, then u will get over her.. just takes time

Try to imagine ur life without her.. think of how u would feel if she up and left ?? Try and imagine that and how u would feel.. like really think about it, and the way u feel should tell u either way how u truly feel about her

Maybe she jus wants to be friends ?

Its worth a try

Write it in one of those notes that u give him..

My 13..nearly 14 yr old nephew was exactly the same,, i have some ideas but its lenghty so check ur private messagess

I really feel for what ur going through, i know the whole move on and get over it line is so easy to use when a friend is in pain.. but it doesnt really hlep much. Im in a situation with similarities to urs except i lost a friend ( a guy) not a boyfriend, but its still hard considering how close we were at some stage.. If u want to talk ill listen to you because i know thats really important, to jus have someone to listen.. seeya around

My advice is to tell her that u want to be friends but you both need a few months break of no contact to heal.. if yous try and be friends straight away its so likely to fail and end in more pain.. Jus have a break for awhile then try to be friends, its had more sucess then trying straight away

If you feel it best to cut any ties with ur ex then do it.. maybe even tell this friend that you jus need alittle time on ur own and ull contact him when things r cool again.. because he was there for you right, and good friends like that are hard to come by, maybe you could even tell him that you dont want to talk about the ex while yous are together. I wouldnt push the friend away tho