BreArna

Hey

This used to happen to me, still does sometimes. I found out that when you have an orgasm for a few seconds you loose total control both mentally and physically and so thats why you sometimes cry afterwards, cos all of the emotians about anything bothering you at the time, or in your past that you havent dealt with surface. So maybe thats it ?

I think you should get to know him in person.. before you put ur friendship on the line

Yes i believe in it

Without talkin to them first is alittle hard.. but lots of eye contact is a good sign.. so is basically acting shy ( i take it ur talking about a girl here lol)

So like if she looks over at you alot to catch ur eye and when she does she looks away and stuff.. body languge.. playing with hair and that aswell.

Well i guess someone should reply to you lol

I have a long term boyfriend of 7 years so i guess what he is , is basically wat i want/ need.. But no one is perfect lol and there is stuff about him i dont like and stuff i totally love

I think we all have basically the same needs be a girl or guy

Someone who we are comfortable with, someone who respects us and cares about us, Someone we can talk to .. not nessicerily about anything tho lol, someone who makes us smile and laugh.

So i guess a girls ideal man would be able to make us feel safe, make us smile and laugh.. be kind and gentle, willing to give us the space we need to be ourselves, oh and one thing that i totally love about a guy.. whether it be a boyfriend or jus a friend.. is the way he loves his family, hes gotta have good morals and family ideals.. like love his mum lol,, and his siblings.. cos thats really sweet.. and not be afraid to show emotoin, not all the time of course, but when its needed.. hope that helped u lol

If your really worried then go to the docter and ask for the 'morning after pill' .. it works anywhere up to 72 hours afterwards

No big deal ? Its her virginity

You like Josh. .but he likes your best friend

You say you love Chris.. but he has a girlfriend

walk away from them both

Your aware that its you starting most of the argurments.. so do something about it, if she is this important to you. Say sorry or soemthing to make up for the most recent one. Its possible that ur starting these little fights to try and hide your real feelings for her.

Why do you always start arguments with herr ?

Firstly,, are you male or female.. and is the friend male or female.

And is this friend an ex boy/girl friend ?

Yeah i feel bad for him.. with us all speculating but its not something i can jus put out of my mind cos i care about him alot... My boyfriend wanted to tell his brother about what we know about his son but i told him not to because its too early and if anything comes of it then its up to him to tell people or not.. I cant see his brother confronting him about it because hes too scared that he will admit it.. I talked to the friend that was checking out the history and told him to keep quiet because it could jus well be curiosity.. I know what u mean about lesbian porn, but i jus thought straight guys were different, like wouldnt go near gay porn etc

Hey everyone

I need some advice about something thats happening with my boyfriends 16yrld nephew.. Well one of his brothers whos 18 and a friend were looking through the computer history and found alot of gay sites that had been searched for and the sites had been looked at all the way through, enlarging pictures etc of gay men .. so this 16yr old is pretty interested in looking at men and stuff.. Is this normal ? Also ive always thought he was alittle different to his brothers and friends, but could never pick what it was.. now everything hes done and says seems to fit with what hes looking at now and im really worried.. So is his uncle, and his brother was pretty shocked. Do any of you think its something to worry about ? or just a phase or something ? If he was gay im not sure if his family would except it and theyd make his life hard i think.. hes a really great kid and i know itd be alrite with it and support him but i guess its different cos im not a guy.. Any advice would be appreciated

All i can guess is that the reason she feels like shes cheating on her new bf is because she has feelings for you still.. I cant see any other reason for it

I would probably say the best way for her to get some closure is to stop having contact with this guy.. until she is sure her feelings for him have changed.. Itd probably take awhile tho because of the circumstances of them breaking up

aww u poor guy

If u dont get any chances to talk to her without other people being there, try writing a letter and putting in it everything you want to tell her.. or an email etc

Good luck

You probably just have to get used to it, atleast he was being nice about it so thats good

Just talk to her! say something about the class, like a question.. whatever

Ull only regret it if u dont

Just be her friend. Dont make her feel uncomfortable with asking her out or anything when you know she has a boyfriend, she'll respect u alot for that. If you want to get to know her better then ask her to go out ' as friends' and make sure u remember she has a bf

I think if its this serious, meaning its affecting ur relationships then you should really think about getting some professional help before it gets outa control.. Other then that im not sure what you could do , sorry

good luck tho

Aww that poem is soo beautiful

If hes acting like that then he probbaly thinks of it as a real relationship aswell.. Only way to know for sure is to ask him

Im really happy for you, you sound happy and thats all thats important

I dont really think that itd be called friends with benefits if you and he werent friends before hand, more like just a casual relationship. Okay now back to what u said about FWB, jus having sex but with no feelings etc involved.. I think its too much a risk to do that to a friendship, if you want the friendship to last then dont get into a sexual relationship with that person because it gets complicated because one of them or sometimes both start to get to attached and feelings developed and all that stuff u dont want in a friendship.

Ive never actually heard of them, i wouldnt put to much faith in it working tho.. I guess tho i would try one jus to see if it worked, like out of curiosity