MpsM1 Posted November 5, 2019 Share Posted November 5, 2019 Me and my bf have been together for 5 years. He is a reay great guy and loves me a lot.He cheated on me once with my close friend where they exchanged texts for a few months... But he felt v.guilty came clean to me... After lots of fights and time... I forgave him... Its been 4 years now and he has always been extremely truthful and goes out of the way to make me happy... But two days ago he has a beer. He promised he will never consume alcohol and even if he did,he would tell me...He dint tell me and told mr only because he got sick. I feel so betrayed again... He said he was forced to take at his work... I m v.scared and hurt that he lied to me. He says he has been building the courage to tell me for 2 days.But it really makes me sad and i love him so much and i know he regrets it. but i m finding it hard to accept it. What to do? Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted November 5, 2019 Share Posted November 5, 2019 Sorry to hear this. Keep in mind "great guys" don't cheat.He is a reay great guy and loves me a lot.He cheated on me once with my close friend where they exchanged texts for a few months. Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted November 5, 2019 Share Posted November 5, 2019 My guess is this incident is related to the fact that you never fully trusted him after his cheating episode, and rightly so, (imo). Very few people make it in the long term after a betrayal of this sort, and sweeping it under the rug eventually comes back to haunt you. JMO... Link to comment
ThatwasThen Posted November 6, 2019 Share Posted November 6, 2019 You call texting your friend cheating? Why did you make him promise you he would never drink? Is he an alcoholic? How old are the two of you? Link to comment
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