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    Lifesvictim01
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    Small penis ? Large vagina ?

    Iv just been reading a post about guys with small penis ?, but iv never seen a post about women whos vaginas are not tight anymore ?

    how do you satisfy a man if he cant penetrate due to the vagina becoming too loose?

    what makes a tight vagina become a loose vagina ? I know its not child birth so what is it.

    how can you satify your man when its not tight fit anymore?

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    I thought vaginas could um...become snug?
    With um those excercises...kegels?

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    Hahaha... okay sorry, this struck me as funny.

    I don't believe you would ever be 'too loose' that a guy would not be able to penetrate you. That's like saying... look, the door is open too wide, I can't get into the house???

    Your skin is sort of like a rubber band, it has elasticity to it. That's what lets it 'bounce' back into shape... but as you get older, and the rougher you are with it... the more it wears out and doesn't 'stretch' or 'bounce' back quite the way it used to. Your facial skin get's stretched probably more than anything else... talking, eating, laughing, crying, all of this stretches your skin around which is probably why you get wrinkles on your face, and not usually say, your back. Well I don't know where it was said that childbirth doesn't 'loosen' a vagina... because well... an ENTIRE BABY get's SHOVED through it... I think that could stretch out just about ANYTHING!!!! Sex also stretches it out 'down there' and just like the rest of your body, it begins to lose it's elasticity.

    Anyhooo though, I don't think kegels actually tighten the vagina (well, okay, they probably do some) but to my understanding kegels strenthen the muscles down there and give you more control over them (like learning to wiggle your nose, or your ears) so that you can tighten them or loosen them at will. The control you have over those muscles can be used to make sex 'more fun' whether or not you are 'tight or loose' because by flexing them you can create a feeling of tightness, and by alternating between tight and loose you can create a sort of massaging feel.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lifesvictim01 [Register to see the link]
    how can you satify your man when its not tight fit anymore?
    There are many ways to "satisfy" a man that don't involve penetration; and many couples who use those methods because for one reason or another because normal penetration just dosen't fulfill...

    Oral, by hand, anal, breast, etc... All of these are substitutes , but as far as strictly vaginal sex is concerned if you are too loose for your partner to enjoy the necessary friction, then either you do your pelvic floor exercises (which DO work, in time) or you compensate. Look on any sex toy website and you will see plenty of options to take up the extra space in there also....
    Last edited by vandgsmom; 11-18-2006 at 08:15 PM.

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    you can do kegel exercises. your vagina is never too loose..the only way it gets not as tight as when you lose your virginity and the more sexual partners you have with the different sizes of penises, but it is elastic as someone above mentioned..

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    so is there something to make you feel tighter so that a guy with smaller penis fits better ? ?It cant surely be just upto the guy to have big chunky penis ? too much is focused on the guy , it should work boths ways dont you think ? I herd that younger girls have tighter vaginas is this myth

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    There are also different positions that you can use to keep things... closer together.

    Any position where you keep your legs together will help make your vagina seem tighter.

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    Its like throwing a hot dog down a hallway!

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    wondered.. If a girl feels loose to you, does that mean that she aint feeling much too?

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    Quote Originally Posted by MagicToilet [Register to see the link]
    wondered.. If a girl feels loose to you, does that mean that she aint feeling much too?
    When I first lost my virginity, my ex said I was loose and asked if I had been fingering myself too much.

    I said...wait you mean we just had sex?

    So yup...she's probably not feeling too much.

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