I'm not sure if this falls under this forum...

He has a tape of her destroying the tape...I do believe I said that correctly.

Ok then. I still think the parents should be investigating these alleged activities further. It was indicated in one of the replies, that they do not believe him? Why would they not believe and check into this situation?

Ya know coollady....I'm only 23 and don't have kids yet....even though my fiance and I have SERIOUS baby fever....but there are a lot of things I see parents do that really make me look down to the ground and shake my head while thinking...how do you do it? I really feel for him and I think the worst thing in the world is telling your parents something like that, just to have them...not believe you....

At the same time, it really really makes me angry!!

yeah i am angry as well. they should have at least tried to find out what is going on instead of just ignoring it completely. i agree with randi, sit down with your parents when your sister is NOT home and talk to them. this way you will talk more openly to them. did you tell them you called the police a couple of times? did you tell them your uncle knew about this??

You parents are not respecting your wishes...

I suggest you find alternative living arrangements, even with your gf until you can seek someone responsible. School counsellor, family friend... and the police. This is a serious matter and she is going to continue to act like a freak until you take it properly into your own hands.

Clearly your parents cannot be trusted... They should at least be looking into the matter.

please get help hem..

talk to your parents in a calm manner and do what the others have said but also have your uncle there to. get him to admit he knew about this.

His parents are irresponsible and they will not listen to what he has to say...

He needs to find alternative living arrangements until it is rectified by the police.

His parents finally listened...his sister is in trouble...she and her friends are in jail.

His uncle proved it to them.....I said that wrong earlier.....sorry!!!

Glad to hear they finally got to know what type of sister he had. What did he do by the way, to get his parents to listen to him??? Was there more evidence??

Not sure yet, all he said was they were in jail.

What? I'm lost... Who is in jail?

Someone please fill me in?

PR

i think she meant the uncle and the sister are in jail??

That is good, they need psychometric help... and fast.

I hope something good comes from this situation before it gets anymore out of hand.

yeah i know. i cant imagine what he went through.

Sister and friends are in jail....uncle helped him prove it to his parents!

Check out the whole thread PR, you'll see from the first few posts...

Thank god, it baffels me that a person, let alone their friends as well, can do that to someone... It's just so messed up, I'm so happy to hear that they're in jail, so that the guy's finally safe.

that is brilliant news! i am glad the uncle has made up for his mistake and helped put those sickos behind bars. thank heavens for that

Sister and friends are in jail....uncle helped him prove it to his parents!

 

Check out the whole thread PR, you'll see from the first few posts...

I was following the whole time, I just got lost at the end

Looks like he is safe now which is great

If someone had done that to me I would call the law in. Just because you are a child does not mean that you have less rights as a human being. You are being abused...If your family are not there to help you email Ophrah or someone else with some power to stop what is happening to you.

It's such a sad situation because most people want to believe it's only happening to women...

that is wrong...it doesnt necessarily have to be the female thats going through that - it can happen to anyone, male or female of any age. its horrible

lilac, you're right, but unfortunately a lot of people don't accept that women also can abuse people, sexually or not. The chance of a woman being convicted of a sexual offence is a lot lower than with men.

that is wrong...it doesnt necessarily have to be the female thats going through that - it can happen to anyone, male or female of any age. its horrible

I'm not saying that's what I believe...it's just what society says..I guess.

hey sorry randi i wasnt taking a personal dig at ya

hey sorry randi i wasnt taking a personal dig at ya

 

no problem! I understand! I just don't want it to sound like I was sexist!

hey randi have you heard whats happening?? is he okay now?