clairelouise11 Posted January 27, 2005 Share Posted January 27, 2005 Hi guys Just wondering on the best way to reassure my insecure boyfriend that i love him to bits and that he makes me happy. I'm not the best person when it comes to communication but even when i say that i love him and am happy i still think that he feels worried that he's not good enough for me. Is there anyway to show him that he's the one by doing things as sometimes i think that words just aren't enough. Some responses from men would be really cool! Thanks a lot. Link to comment
kuhl282000 Posted January 27, 2005 Share Posted January 27, 2005 Hello Just keep doing what you are doing and let him know that you love him no matter what. Feeling good enough is something he has to work on on his own. Warm Regards Kuhl 8) Link to comment
sonjam Posted January 27, 2005 Share Posted January 27, 2005 yes. The only person that can stop the insecure feeling in your boyfriend, is himself. YOu can do all you like, if he's insecure it doesn't matter. Best is to re-assure him often, but don't fence yourself in becouse he's feeling vulnerable. Help him to get a bit of self-help therapy?? Link to comment
PAdreamer Posted January 27, 2005 Share Posted January 27, 2005 Like they said, just keep doing your thing. Don't just tell him that you love him, SHOW him. Eventually he will start to realize that you are continuously showing him love and support, and his confidence will grow. Link to comment
mt_joy Posted January 28, 2005 Share Posted January 28, 2005 Yes, keep SHOWING him that you love him, in addition to telling him. Make him feel very loved on a regular basis. And, needless to say, avoid doing hurtful things. Link to comment
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