Tammy72 Posted August 29, 2019 Share Posted August 29, 2019 I started 60 day no contact 11 days in i messed up..now my heart is broke..i told him how i felt and he acted nonchalantly i should of stayed no contact...starting over again..60 days should give me time to heal and reset my emotions...i dont want to ever talk to him again ever Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted August 29, 2019 Share Posted August 29, 2019 What was the breakup about? No contact is for you and needs to be permanent. This means deleting and blocking him and all his people from All your social media and All your messaging apps. No contact is for you to clear your head without dragging out drama. It is not a temporary time-out period to make a point or hope they come back.I started 60 day no contact 11 days in i messed up..now my heart is broke..i told him how i felt and he acted nonchalantly. Link to comment
Tammy72 Posted August 29, 2019 Author Share Posted August 29, 2019 The break up was about him pulling his mask off and giving me crumbs. So i broke up with him.. its over anyway its is too unhealthy for my soul...i started no contact and broke it have to do all over again this time im sticking to 60 days do or die it jus hurts my heart right now Link to comment
melancholy123 Posted August 29, 2019 Share Posted August 29, 2019 Block and delete and work on moving on. Link to comment
Tammy72 Posted August 29, 2019 Author Share Posted August 29, 2019 Yes i blocked him to death..i keep blockin and unblocking wanting to reach out to him..he betting on my reaching out to him he believes im in deeply in love with him Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted August 29, 2019 Share Posted August 29, 2019 It sounds like you are still in love with him and hope he reconsiders. You sound quite angry and upset that he ended things. You seem to have a love/hate thing with him, no? What did he say the reason for the breakup was?.i keep unblocking wanting to reach out to him..he betting on my reaching out to him he believes im in deeply in love with him Link to comment
Hollyj Posted August 29, 2019 Share Posted August 29, 2019 Yes i blocked him to death..i keep blockin and unblocking wanting to reach out to him..he betting on my reaching out to him he believes I'm in deeply in love with him Then delete his contact info. He does not want a relationship with you. Link to comment
Tammy72 Posted August 29, 2019 Author Share Posted August 29, 2019 I ended it with him for the 50th time..im jus going thru the grieving stage..I don't want to be with him because it was toxic...but i still do want him because im trama bonded, i blocked him on everything so he cant reach out. I jus have to get thru this like a soilder💪 1st day no contact is makin me want to throw up Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted August 29, 2019 Share Posted August 29, 2019 Ok, just stay blocked and reach out to friends and family for supportI ended it with him for the 50th time..im jus going thru the grieving stage..I don't want to be with him because it was toxic...but i still do want him because im trama bonded, i blocked him on everything so he cant reach out. I jus have to get thru this like a soilder💪 1st day no contact is makin me want to throw up Link to comment
Tammy72 Posted August 29, 2019 Author Share Posted August 29, 2019 Thank you...moving forward Link to comment
Hollyj Posted August 29, 2019 Share Posted August 29, 2019 Why won't you delete his contact info? Link to comment
Tammy72 Posted August 29, 2019 Author Share Posted August 29, 2019 I jus did for the last time..i wanted to hear from him but i would rather suffer through this time than go back to him its not worth it... Link to comment
Hollyj Posted August 30, 2019 Share Posted August 30, 2019 I jus did for the last time..i wanted to hear from him but i would rather suffer through this time than go back to him its not worth it... Good job!!!!! Link to comment
No1 Posted August 30, 2019 Share Posted August 30, 2019 OP.. don't count. Each time you count it just reminds you why you are counting, just keep busy and live your life and make you happy. Link to comment
Tammy72 Posted August 30, 2019 Author Share Posted August 30, 2019 Ok i will try not to count...but it does give me motivation.. Link to comment
Hollyj Posted August 30, 2019 Share Posted August 30, 2019 Ok i will try not to count...but it does give me motivation.. I agree with No 1. Stop counting. Keep yourself busy with friends and activities. This is what is motivating: moving on with your life, not counting and fixating. Link to comment
Tammy72 Posted August 30, 2019 Author Share Posted August 30, 2019 And even thou i was blocking and unblocking him on my personal text messages...i was still going to his Facebook page..i blocked him on that too.. i need that wall up so i can readjust my life and not be in this toxic soup Link to comment
TeeDee Posted August 30, 2019 Share Posted August 30, 2019 You are taking all the right steps. It's a difficult process getting out of one of these on again off again tumultuous relationships. Hang tough & you will get through this. Come here rather than contact him. Go for a walk. Call a friend. Do whatever you need to do to maintain the separation. Best wishes Link to comment
Tammy72 Posted August 30, 2019 Author Share Posted August 30, 2019 Thank you your empowering words i need it Link to comment
Tammy72 Posted August 30, 2019 Author Share Posted August 30, 2019 I dont know abt friends and family for support this forum is all i have and my strong will💪 Link to comment
Tammy72 Posted August 30, 2019 Author Share Posted August 30, 2019 Oh lord i want to text him and ask him why he couldn't communicate better with me..but i know if i do i will regret it with my whole soul...he dosent care i need to realize that Link to comment
TeeDee Posted August 30, 2019 Share Posted August 30, 2019 Oh lord i want to text him and ask him why he couldn't communicate better with me.. Think about the irony of this. If he could communicate with you, you may still be together. You could reach out but you KNOW he can't express to you what went wrong. It's just not in his skill set. Keep yourself busy. If you haven't deleted him, do it. Nobody knows phone #s any more so it should help prevent you from doing something foolish. Hang in there. Link to comment
Tammy72 Posted August 30, 2019 Author Share Posted August 30, 2019 Ive got him deleted and blocked already..okay i wont 😔 Link to comment
Joanne1985 Posted September 3, 2019 Share Posted September 3, 2019 Thank you your empowering words i need it Are you still in NC Link to comment
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