gotmilk5 Posted October 31, 2005 Share Posted October 31, 2005 well i asked a girl out and she sent me an email saying (hey tony. yeah i like you.. but i dunno if i want a bf rite now. your hella cool n s*** so dont get me wrong. maybe things will be different later on tho k. i still luv you) so wat do you think i know she doesn't want to go out w/ me right now but does she acctually like me or was she just putting me down easy????please some1 help confused-tony Link to comment
DropToZero Posted October 31, 2005 Share Posted October 31, 2005 It's an easy let-down man, move on, that's all there is to it...sorry. Link to comment
annie24 Posted October 31, 2005 Share Posted October 31, 2005 Yeah, I have to agree, I'm sorry. From a female perspective, that looks like an easy let down. oh well, just keep asking girls out. Good luck! Link to comment
gotmilk5 Posted October 31, 2005 Author Share Posted October 31, 2005 thanks i mean i really liked her and that wasnt the anwser i hoped for but the truth hurts sometimes.thanks -tony Link to comment
metallicachica247 Posted October 31, 2005 Share Posted October 31, 2005 i think she does, and as she says she just needs a break from relationships. I am really sorry about that, but for now, maybe you need a break too. I am not going to tell you to move on, because everyone moves on at their own pace. You can be upset, but as long as your still hooked on her, you wont be fully into any other relationship Link to comment
DiscipleOfChange Posted October 31, 2005 Share Posted October 31, 2005 I think this is one of those issues where people can only advise based on experience but the vibes you've gotten from her are what should determine the interpretation. She said she liked you in the Email and if this girl is decent, she wouldn't have said it unles she meant it. Foget "easy let downs" if a girl doesn't feel the same, she'll let you know, albeit occasionally in a subtle way unles she's trying to lead you on (which wouldn't make any sense if she wasn't interested.) Remember, the most rational explanation is often the accurate one. In this situation that means exactly what she wrote. She likes you but doesn't feel ready for a relationship. Case in point: For now, she has told you that a relationship is out of the question. thereforeeee, either move on or don't try to be in a relationship with her but still hang out with her Link to comment
AlwaysNeedHelp Posted October 31, 2005 Share Posted October 31, 2005 well maybe she is not interested at all... but i think she likes you as she said.. but all she cant see u together at the MOMENT... maybe things change in the future and maybe not.. so dont wait.. just forget it and let things happen naturally.. if she likes as she said.. she will recognize that u r a good guy and tell u.. but dont ask her alot.. never.. good luck Link to comment
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