FallingTooFast Posted March 14, 2007 Share Posted March 14, 2007 I've been going out with him for 6 months. He was new to the school and new to my state. At the beginning of the schoolyear, he asked me out 10 days into school. He told me recently that he had thought another girl was pretty and had thought about asking her out too. That's not a problem. He chose me, and I love him. But he and this girl are now best friends. And I'm a VERY jealous person. We don't see eachother for 3 periods at the end of the day, and 2 of those he has with her. When I see him at the end of the day he always talks about "Well, soandso did this and it was soooo funny" and things like that. I've asked him to stop, and he knows how much it hurts me, I feel like I'm inadequate. He's also told me if I were to have a guy friend as close to me as she is to him, he wouldn't be able to love me. But then he doesn't understand why I can't stand that he has a girl thats a friend. It's really hard to be happy with him, knowing that he has possibly more fun with another girl. Ex: We were at a pep-rally, and music was playing and we were all being silly, and I did some old disco moves, and he sorta giggled. And then he turned around to the other side of him, and she did the same thing, then he burst out laughing. I know he loves me, and I know he won't leave me, but is it right for him to have this close of a female friend. And on top of all this, I don't hear anything about any of his guy friends, and he has more female friends that guy friends, we've counted. 15 female friends and only 9 male. It's just so hard to me. Please put your input in. Thankyou. Link to comment
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