Asking him to spend the night at my place..is it a big deal for guys?

[VirginGirl85]

Is this a big deal for guys?

[Dako]

No.

It's really a nice thing to be in a new place as a guest, with all those girly smells and knicknacks.

[J6hn]

Not really.

Waking up next to the person you love is the greatest feeling in the world and he'll understand that.

[SquareWheel]

It certainly would be, for me, but in a good way. If you're thinking about it, I'd say go for it.

[southerngirl]

Depends on the guy, for alot of them it could be a very big deal.... just like it could be a big deal for alot of ladies.

 

Is this a big deal for you?

[Tears May Fall]

I dont think its a big deal at all. At that age, inviting someone over to spend the night is just a friendly gesture showing you want to spend time with him and he'll be excited by the idea of it.

Only problem, some guys think that is an automatic invitation for sex...not sure if you guys are past that yet or not...but if not, he'll think that is what you have in mind. Hey, if that is what you have in mind, then thats makes it simpler. If not, he might be expecting something to happen, and if it doesnt, he might wake up upset the next day. Depends on the individual and your relationship.

[musicguy]

It's nice to cuddle with someone

[Honey Pumpkin]

Asking him to spend the night at my place..is it a big deal for guys?

 

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Is this a big deal for guys?

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Only thing is, wasn't clear if you were asking him over to have sex with him. And if I'm not sure, there's a good chance he won't be sure. If you don't want to have sex with him (and as you're called virgin girl I'm thinking you might not be!) then you probably want to make that clear to him. It's just a lot of men would be joyfully thinking 'way hey, I'm in there' whilst flinging off their clothes.

[Locke2121]

In a way it is, men actually need more cuddle time that women! So asking him to spend the night cuddled up with you is very important to his mental well-being and his emotional attachment to you as well.

 

Asking to stay and make love to you....well heck, you can figure that one out!

[VirginGirl85]

Ok so to be clear on a few things we've tried to have sex. I'm a virgin and very tight. We tried but he couldn't get in. Yes sex might happen. We are both cuddlers which I love!! I only wondered bc we have only been dating a month on tuesday. It's gonna be so much fun. Stuff doesn't seem to bother him. He said he wants to spend the night and also we are going to a friend of mine of elementary school's wedding together. I was so afraid to ask him that it might be a little scary for him. Anyways he is gonna come over in a few nights when we are on spring break. We both work and go to school so we don't get alot of time for ourselves. I'm so happy thanks for all of the replies!

[Cardinal]

Guys don't get freaked out about it. And given that sex is perfectly possible, I doubt he would find it awkward or would wonder about your intentions.

[Dako]

VG,

After following your posts, I'm really happy for you.

Sounds like a good guy.