What made you break your committment?

[Aschleigh]

Ok you were totally in love, you committed to being in this forever. The magic left but you stayed in it becuase you made a committment. Then what?

Why did you finally decide to end it? What turned your decidion from forever to the end? If it wasn't abuse, why break the commttment ever?

[SeaBisquit]

for me, i fell out of love. it was pretty much unfixable at that point.

[laboheme]

Going by what my ex has said after the breakup, he wasn't happy towards the end of the relationship, but I wasn't seeing it...He gave us many chances before finally calling it quits, but I blew them all (because I didn't know what was going on). thereforeeee, he had no reason to believe that giving me another chance would change anything...and yeah.

[Stambler]

Ditto on what labeheme said for me, but it was my wife who walked....

[sidehop]

I realized the type of person I want to grow old with.

[puppeteer]

she told me that her sex life with another man was none of my business...

 

 

that's when i realised i should probably move on...

[darkpumpkin]

For me figuring out if it is worth trying to bring the magic back.

[fnlyfrei]

For me, I had changed...grown. He hadn't...couldn't-wouldn't. The person you are at 17 isn't the same person you become later. And...there is a certain point when you just tire of the constant fighting and battles...power struggles...so you just end the war.

[amtjrtcet]

For me, I had changed...grown. He hadn't...couldn't-wouldn't. The person you are at 17 isn't the same person you become later. And...there is a certain point when you just tire of the constant fighting and battles...power struggles...so you just end the war.

 

Same here.

[daphdivorce]

I'm going through a potential divorce now and I'm the one breaking the commitment. I would say, like others, that I have grown throughout my relationship and realized I needed something more from my marriage than I had originally thought. I also fell out of love and all the arguments became unbearable. You can only get so far when you have no desire to be with a person anymore. It's still extremely sad, but I realized that if I wanted to keep myself intact, I'd have to break the commitment.

[mommyoftwo]

I was foolish enough to marry an alcoholic.

[Jeff777]

I married a woman who was in depression and went into drugs.

[Jetta]

I married a man I wasn't in love with. I thought I would grow to love him, didn't happen. We had a lot of problems and I basically wanted to run away, which I did and created more problems.

[Robert Smith]

Did you always feel this way or was it a graduual shift in the relationship? When you "fell out of love" did you still care for them as a person, but just realize that you were (2) dfferent people? Did you have any kids, and if not would that have changed your actions? I am interested beacuse I am at the same place in my life, or so I believe I am and need some insight.

 

 

I'm going through a potential divorce now and I'm the one breaking the commitment. I would say, like others, that I have grown throughout my relationship and realized I needed something more from my marriage than I had originally thought. I also fell out of love and all the arguments became unbearable. You can only get so far when you have no desire to be with a person anymore. It's still extremely sad, but I realized that if I wanted to keep myself intact, I'd have to break the commitment.