luvmykids Posted January 13, 2007 Share Posted January 13, 2007 I've hidden my feelings since Sunday, but I don't think I can tell the kids without breaking down and crying. I know it's probably better to tell them with her there, but in my case it might not be better... Maybe wait and let them know at your folks place. It might ease the pain for all of you... There's nothing like a parents love no matter how old you are Link to comment
Shaker Posted January 13, 2007 Share Posted January 13, 2007 krnelson, let the birthday pass by. here's a wacky idea. buy YOURSELF a piece of cake at a funky bakery, and make a wish. FOR YOU. Link to comment
fleur-de-lis Posted January 13, 2007 Share Posted January 13, 2007 Yes, NC helps me to think about me mostly, but today I can't help it, all my thoughts are about him... and have called my 2 best friends to talk to get it all out, and they were amazing... Right now, I'm trying to keep him blocked on yahoo messenger and on skype, but I have thoughts that maybe he is out tonight with his ex-gf ... I know she is always very anxious to see him ... Link to comment
comfyshoes Posted January 13, 2007 Share Posted January 13, 2007 sandy, my head may be coming together, but my heart still wants to control it! six times is five time too may though! i can't let there be a seventh! shoes Link to comment
Shaker Posted January 13, 2007 Share Posted January 13, 2007 alltornup, i'm so sorry for what you're going through. i agree with luv that it might be best to wait until you're with your parents to break the news. the number one thing to look after right now is your kids' best interest. Link to comment
fleur-de-lis Posted January 13, 2007 Share Posted January 13, 2007 krnelson, I agree with Shaker (very nice idea btw), if you can, don't contact her on her birthday, you'll feel so much more powerfull Link to comment
luvmykids Posted January 13, 2007 Share Posted January 13, 2007 sandy, my head may be coming together, but my heart still wants to control it! six times is five time too may though! i can't let there be a seventh! shoes Oh my, the whole head vs heart.. Thats the hard part...I choose to listen to my head because my heart is broken. Hopfully all of our head and hearts can fly tandum again soon Link to comment
AllTornUp Posted January 13, 2007 Share Posted January 13, 2007 Hey, alltornup dont get mad at me here, but.... maybe you should consider changing your name on here? everytime you post with that name, its a reminder your "ALLTORNUP" maybe something like "IM A HECK OF A MAN" or "IM WORTH IT" just trying to help Is there a way to change it? Or do I need to create another account? Link to comment
luvmykids Posted January 13, 2007 Share Posted January 13, 2007 Is there a way to change it? Or do I need to create another account? Im not sure. maybe in your profile you can change it....Im glad you responded.. I thought I might have angered you..that was not my intention, i just want to help Link to comment
AllTornUp Posted January 13, 2007 Share Posted January 13, 2007 Im not sure. maybe in your profile you can change it....Im glad you responded.. I thought I might have angered you..that was not my intention, i just want to help No, I created the profile in July 2004 after my then wife of 8 years left me. I didn't stick around and looking back, I regret that because I was an absolute mess for a long time. Link to comment
luvmykids Posted January 13, 2007 Share Posted January 13, 2007 No, I created the profile in July 2004 after my then wife of 8 years left me. I didn't stick around and looking back, I regret that because I was an absolute mess for a long time. My ex husband of 10 yrs and I also filed in july of 2004... I too was a mess. stayed single up until this last one ive been ranting about in here....I feel your pain...seems as tho we are on the same boat. you will get throught this, I promise! Link to comment
AllTornUp Posted January 13, 2007 Share Posted January 13, 2007 Thanks, Luv. I think I'm going to go lay down for a bit. I didn't sleep very well last night. I had been sleeping great all along until now.. Link to comment
luvmykids Posted January 13, 2007 Share Posted January 13, 2007 Thanks, Luv. I think I'm going to go lay down for a bit. I didn't sleep very well last night. I had been sleeping great all along until now.. your welcome...take care! Link to comment
sandyv Posted January 13, 2007 Share Posted January 13, 2007 Hey Luv, had to get some stuff at the store, fridge was empty, im back Link to comment
luvmykids Posted January 13, 2007 Share Posted January 13, 2007 Hey Luv, had to get some stuff at the store, fridge was empty, im back Did you read the posts from alltornup? Man I feel for him.....That kind of pain sould be outlawed! Link to comment
sandyv Posted January 13, 2007 Share Posted January 13, 2007 Yeah so sad ..... that can't be easy eh? Link to comment
luvmykids Posted January 13, 2007 Share Posted January 13, 2007 I think Im going to lay down also..like alltornup..I didnt sleep well last night and was up very early "thinking" about the things I heard last night. Damn I miss him! I just feel like crying..I havent cried about him since I last talked to him on new yrs eve. this bites! Link to comment
luvmykids Posted January 13, 2007 Share Posted January 13, 2007 DONT CALL THAT MAN! oops, was thinking aloud! lol self talk helps.. Link to comment
sandyv Posted January 13, 2007 Share Posted January 13, 2007 DONT CALL THAT MAN! I can relate Luv, I wanna cry with ya..... missing the jerk myself.... feels like we are even crying about the same guy.... have a nice nap.... Hugz Sandy Link to comment
fleur-de-lis Posted January 13, 2007 Share Posted January 13, 2007 Bye luvmykids! I'm cheating here, I just got into his email account ...he hasn't changed his password yet... why am I doing this? Is it because I'm used to that? I want to know if he is out tonight...if he is already dating his ex-ex gf... Link to comment
fleur-de-lis Posted January 13, 2007 Share Posted January 13, 2007 well, if he is dating someone tonight, that means I made the right choice about leaving him... Link to comment
sandyv Posted January 13, 2007 Share Posted January 13, 2007 fleur, I'm guilty of the same thing, I have my ex's email and password and he doesn't know it lol Link to comment
fleur-de-lis Posted January 13, 2007 Share Posted January 13, 2007 it's nice to know i'm not the only one I think he will change his password eventually... so I'd better stop doing this, cause it will hurt me to know that he has changed it Link to comment
sandyv Posted January 13, 2007 Share Posted January 13, 2007 ](*,) Thats true fleur, how I came to know my ex's is bc a mutual friend of Jack's (ex) and mine, helped him set up an email account, and guess what.... Jacks so-called friend likes me more (he even came onto me)yecky..... but he GAVE it to me, I didn't ask him for it.... but sometimes I check it out.... I know I shouldn't either.... but can't help myself. Link to comment
sandyv Posted January 13, 2007 Share Posted January 13, 2007 There is never much interesting mail there though, he gets offers for auditions and stuff, no women at all.... hmmmm..... Link to comment
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