ycmanvs Posted December 3, 2007 Share Posted December 3, 2007 Day 3. Wonder if I will last forever. I made a list of all the bad things about him and I look at it when I get nostalgic. Link to comment
LilBear Posted December 3, 2007 Share Posted December 3, 2007 Day 2 today...help me stay strong, dear God Link to comment
SuperDave71 Posted December 3, 2007 Author Share Posted December 3, 2007 YOU CAN DO IT LIL BEAR!!!!! Stay Strong!!! -SuperDave71 Link to comment
Crows Posted December 3, 2007 Share Posted December 3, 2007 Day... 6? Maybe 5? I'm glad I lost count. I have virtually no urge to contact her anymore. I miss her still but the ball is in her court absolutely. I hope the best for her, she is a good person deep down. Link to comment
oldspice4me Posted December 4, 2007 Share Posted December 4, 2007 Day 1. No contact today. Was hoping for something from her to let me know maybe. But, anyways I think Ill be able to do this. Link to comment
Chris777 Posted December 4, 2007 Share Posted December 4, 2007 Day 1 Since we talked yesterday for her to say sorry and our good byes i have to start all over again. So today i felt bad but that's cause i talked to her yesterday, back to healing.. Link to comment
Crows Posted December 4, 2007 Share Posted December 4, 2007 My ex has completely disappeared off the face of the planet again.... this seems to be a bi weekly to monthly occurrence for her for about a week she disappears. No facebook updates, no MSN, absolutely nothing. All this after she said she wished we talked more. The chain of events after my ex breaking up with me has been remarkable and I am most certain they are all connected. 1.Ex breaks up with me 2.Best friend tells me he doesn't want to talk to me ever again (2 days later) 3.Ex best friend continuely contacts my ex best friend, telling horrible lies about me, telling me she made the right decision. 4. Begin heavy drinking (which leads to arguments with ex when she called) 5. Seizure at a movie theatre 6. Start smoking 7.Now am done 3 of 6 medical tests to see if i'm ok. 8. Ski resort will not give me my money back for the trip I planned for my ex and I for our 6 month and to re kindle our relationship. ( i am now essentially broke) ANd ironically tonight I'm wearing a heart ECG monitor for 24 hours to see if my heart palpitations will stop. Link to comment
Chris777 Posted December 4, 2007 Share Posted December 4, 2007 hey, know that there is karma, if she did this you obviously deserve better. stay strong. Link to comment
lovemeorleaveme Posted December 4, 2007 Share Posted December 4, 2007 Day 9..i Still Think About Him.. Link to comment
ycmanvs Posted December 4, 2007 Share Posted December 4, 2007 Day 4. It sucks not knowing if he even realizes that I dumped him for good. I almost feel like calling him to make sure he knows, but I know that it is best to stay in No Contact for good. Link to comment
blindreepr Posted December 4, 2007 Share Posted December 4, 2007 day 18 nc, I can't believe I am almost to the 20's! Link to comment
LilBear Posted December 4, 2007 Share Posted December 4, 2007 Today is Day 3 (5/12/07) On Monday he texted to ask me what I've got to say (I broke NC earlier to tell him I've got something to say to him, in person, but seems that he just doesn't want to see me), and if there's anything, I should tell him that night. I didn't respond and he started calling around midnight. Yesterday he called again once...possibly to hear what I've got to say again. But when emotions are running high..I suppose there's nothing left to say to him...after all that he's said to me. Link to comment
deleted-account Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 So I'm no good at this NC thing, although, it's pretty much been 2 months since any real contact with her. So I unblocked her on AIM and within 20 minutes she sent me a message and started making jokes. I haven't responded back yet since I have my away message up. I know I'm not completely healed but I have made huge gains in the past few months. Ultimately I want her back but as far as I know she's still with this other guy. Her interest is definietly high cause she has no idea what I'm doing with my life right now. I think I'm going to see how this goes the next few days and if it's going nowhere then I'll go back to NC. I truly feel that no matter what she says right now that it won't set me back. I'm taking a chance. Link to comment
delerium6 Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 I might've made a huge blunder. I'm also on Day 3 of NC... I think. Came home from work, needed to make a couple calls to people. Not her. So what did I do? Called her cell number by mistake (she's obviously on my mind quite a bit). I immediately hung up during the first ring. I might've caught it in time where the ID didn't show up on her cell, but I don't know. I tried calling my own cell phone from the landline, and it seems to take a little more than one ring before the cell gets the signal. Crap. I guess I'll never know if I "broke" NC just now or not. ](*,) Link to comment
thouse Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 Day 4. It sucks not knowing if he even realizes that I dumped him for good. I almost feel like calling him to make sure he knows, but I know that it is best to stay in No Contact for good. If you want him to realize it, and even go as far as to call him and tell him then you have not truly dumped him for good yet, be honest with yourself. Link to comment
not my real name Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 Today is day 16. I know what others mean when they say it gets easier and at the same time it gets harder. Ugh. I'm totally okay, in fact, I'm great - but the moments when I start to miss him again are just horrid. I still don't understand how after so long he just cuts me out of his life, I'm feeling angry again. I won't allow myself to wallow in pity though - I do whatever it takes to lift my spirits asap Link to comment
lovemeorleaveme Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 Hello..its day 10 for me.. Link to comment
ycmanvs Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 Day 5 and going strong. Link to comment
ycmanvs Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 If you want him to realize it, and even go as far as to call him and tell him then you have not truly dumped him for good yet, be honest with yourself. LOL, that is why I have not contacted him. I said that it was ironic that he may not even know that we broke up, because he was so out of touch with me and the relationship. Link to comment
blindreepr Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 day 19 nc still no contact from her, thats a good thing though, it makes it easier on me to remain nc Link to comment
LilBear Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 Today is day 4 for me (6/12/07) He didn't try to contact me yesterday, at all. He might have gone into NC too. And I'm feeling very miserable as of now. Link to comment
AngryHeart Posted December 5, 2007 Share Posted December 5, 2007 Well, I'm in! I text my "boyfriend" (need to get round to saying ex, but it's so hard without the closure) this evening for the first time in 2 days (we've not been together for 5 days) I've asked him like 10 times to let me know if we're still together or not, where I stand, and he never replied. So tonight I told him that he must not respect me, etc. and basicaly said bye. He obviously broke up with me but couldn't even TELL me, * * * ? Even if he was thinking about getting back, it's probably no use, I don't want to be ignored and left like that after any argument. He's done it before too, and Iforgave him and he promised he wouldn't do it again. But he did. It proves how much he cares, so I'm doing NC. If he really loves me, he'll come to me I guess. So from tomorrow I'm on day 1. Link to comment
lovemeorleaveme Posted December 6, 2007 Share Posted December 6, 2007 If he really loves me, he'll come to me I guess. So from tomorrow I'm on day 1 hi angryheart..you can do it...at least try 30 days until you guys can talk about anything.I had the same problem..always walking out because that's his way. Try NC for a while.If he really loves you he will speak up like a man.For now maybe he just doesnt want to deal with it. Link to comment
sbux_addict Posted December 6, 2007 Share Posted December 6, 2007 Oh gosh...I can't believe it's been that long. I'm on a relapse - I was doing fine, and today I thought about him again (not that there's anyday I didn't), and I just feel like crap. I can't fricken get him out of my head. I always wonder what he's up to, if he's dating anybody. Even though I told him that we could email each other, he hasn't...sh*t. But then again I'm thinking, if he's really thinking about me, and wants me back, then, he could just email me. When we broke up he said he'll delete my number so he won't be tempted to call. That hurt. I deleted his number too, but it's not like I don't memorize it. This really sucks. I just want to get over him! Link to comment
foleno Posted December 6, 2007 Share Posted December 6, 2007 Sbux addict that is hard relapse, especially with stuff about deleting each others phone number (hes idea or yours) Hmmm.. At least you want 2 get over him. The rest of us are still madly hoping this is true love n will be back 2geather B4 Christmas. Trust me, u r not going 2 think about this person 4ever. Or mayB. LOL Sorry. Just making a point. there is a need why u have not released this addiction, if ur trying 2 get over this person n not get them back, just start evaluating ur views of relationships and this need will start 2 reveal it self. GOOD LUCK Link to comment
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