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  1. foleno
    hey great stuff every one. You have my support
  2. foleno
    Hey life is so beautiful. Please do not try that again. My friend try and succeded. So u got lucky. Please stop.
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    Hey every body. This site was the best support network I ever been part of. I see a lot of new people on the post. Hello and good luck working NC. I just wanted to give an update to everyone. I have not talked to the ex. Yes I wanted her back, but now I know I do not. I would like closure, but not a must. A lot of good things have happened since I have been aways from my ex. Well I am a lot richer. Have more going on in my own business, and just got notice I was excepted to a full scholarship. I never noticed how much of my life and time my ex stole from me. Do not get me wrong I wanted to build a life with her so at the time I thought it was worth it. It is strange, becuase I never felt that way about someone and honestly do not believe I will or at least for a long time. I just wanted to share what was going on and hope others would get some strength from my story. Good luck every one.
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    I reach day 30 again, Feeling odd. Had a very strong dream with her. I have had some powerful dreams before; like guessing winning lottary number, but ya I have had plenty of silly means nothing dreams. I really have to let go.. I am doing NC, but MIGHT GIVE IN IF THESE feelings continue.
  5. foleno
    Hey thats great. NC works if you work it, I know what you mean about not being totally over them.
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    Sorry. I know you want some thing more; and her hinting that was very unfair. Its hard to especially when we wish not to let go, but maybe you have the evidence of how she'll be if you did happen to get back with her. Maybe a relationship with her would really be a waste of your valuble time. Keep us posted. NC it works if you work it.
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    Well here we go. Feeling down from the in and outs of the week. Just feeling confused. I am not sure were to grow now. I am in therapy and have been thinking, thier is no great life, wonderful life, or perfect life. Its just life. Thier will always be relationships that do not mess in our lives. I Just know I always want to be the best person I can be. But boy. It can be tough catching your thoughs. I do not really want my ex back, but I do want to talk with her. A lot of un knows still fill my thoughts, bUT NC is the way to go. Thank ebery one for your support.
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    Hello every one. I hope NC is bring in the new year with some love and new self worth. I think it is day 20 what ever of NC. I kinda do not keep track. Its so odd for me because I have not really had these feelings for any one, and even thou now I do not want my ex back. Okay maybe just a little , it so hard to put those feeling to the side. They were thier. I thought it was the closest thing to love if not love I felt. I guess I wanted it to be love. aT LEAST I LOVE MYSELF. So I do know self respect and self love, Now I just need to share that with some one healthy and I will be me just sharing myselF. tHANKS EVERY ONE FOR YOUR SUPPORT.
  9. foleno
    Good luck. Let us know how it turns out. We support you.
  10. foleno
    It has been a while now since I spoke with my ex. The feelings are gone. And with them the truth comes out. We have to ask are sleves. I did attract that person to me! I also excepted them in my life. Yes that was my doing, and I excepted that behavior. Yes. And I took a chance and tried to save something that was not working off of a feeling. Yes I did. The funny thing is my ex new. I mean she really knew it was a good IDEA for us to split. Sure she could had done it on good terms, I did not have resentment until now. I though ya my ex is just rightly upset, but when the feelings fade you relize, hey that was not nice or exceptable behavior. Sure I was self centered but not deliberately disrespectful or hurtful. We misery Loves Company. So I know she better off. lol Thanks every one for all your support and sharing. It really guided me. I needed this site so bad because i DID NOT HAVE ANY OTHER EXPERIENCE TO BASE THESE FEELING ON or relationship for that matter.
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    The spell is broken. I can honestly look back at the relationship and veiw everything with out giving to I love my ex. Let me give them the benifit because it may keep the love going. Thank God its over. I am so lucky my ex did not take me back. I would have learned nothing. I realize some people never do. Though. I would have like it to been true love. I want to believe love is real so bad.
  13. foleno
    Day 11 for me to. Happy new year and keep up the NC. NC works if you work it.
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    I wanted my love to come back. Yep I have moved on. I went on a date today, and have one with some one new this weekend. I really do not know guys. I do not want to love some one else. I can not go through this again. I can not. I do not even know if love is real. My ex did so much for me, I never had a girl cry and be so open with me. I just do not understand. Now I am just going to create this with some one else. I just do not know if I can. Ya I am a big baby. Sorry. It just seems so hard to understand. I am a very logic person. This loving and feelings just seems. Well ya I guess what will be will be.
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