HurleyBabe6917 Posted January 3, 2007 Share Posted January 3, 2007 Men; what makes a woman desirable to you? Women; what makes a man desirable to you? EDIT;; And by these I'm talking about an image, not their personality. Sorry, should have mentioned that earlier. Link to comment
daredevil Posted January 3, 2007 Share Posted January 3, 2007 When she shows me that she is a independent women and can take care of herself, when she smiles and her eyes are shining. When she knows how to have a good time without being to serious, when she knows how to be serious and listen to you and not just give examples about your problems... When she knows her way around in the bed, when she has a great sight on life and knows her goals in it.. When she doesn't drink her brain out every weekend, and when she takes care of them around her and like ther company without being snobbish or whatever. Link to comment
Baby Carrot Posted January 3, 2007 Share Posted January 3, 2007 Women; what makes a man desirable to you? Phisically Caucasian, white, pale, tall, skinny, strong hands. Long blonde hair and blue eyes DO NOT HURT AT ALL. (baby!!!) Age range: 30-48. Tiny penises are a non issue Mentally Cynical, atheist, anti marriage, not interested in having kids, great with animals, non sport freak, great sense of humor, strong sex drive, knows how to spell and write properly, non cheater/player, independent (in all senses), absolutely not a momma´s boy, does what he says and doesn´t say what he´s not gonna do, hates bullfights and hunting. Others No kids, no wife, no girlfriend, not married, no debts. Having a vasectomy is a huge plus. LOL, is this the answer to this post or my letter to Santa? Link to comment
Clementine orange Posted January 3, 2007 Share Posted January 3, 2007 Women; what makes a man desirable to you? Phisically Caucasian, white, pale, tall, skinny, strong hands. Long blonde hair and blue eyes DO NOT HURT AT ALL. (baby!!!) Age range: 30-48. Tiny penises are a non issue Mentally Cynical, atheist, anti marriage, not interested in having kids, great with animals, non sport freak, great sense of humor, strong sex drive, knows how to spell and write properly, non cheater/player, independent (in all senses), absolutely not a momma´s boy, does what he says and doesn´t say what he´s not gonna do, hates bullfights and hunting. Others No kids, no wife, no girlfriend, not married, no debts. Having a vasectomy is a huge plus. LOL, is this the answer to this post or my letter to Santa? Sorry baby carrot, this particular species you are seeking has been hunted to extinction. Actually I had a roomate like this....but he was gay - sorry! Nice guy though Link to comment
Baby Carrot Posted January 3, 2007 Share Posted January 3, 2007 Sorry baby carrot, this particular species you are seeking has been hunted to extinction. Actually I had a roomate like this....but he was gay - sorry! Nice guy though Didn´t I mention that being gay was a non issue as well? Link to comment
Clementine orange Posted January 3, 2007 Share Posted January 3, 2007 Didn´t I mention that being gay was a non issue as well? Oh, I just assumed.... He did have a healthy sex drive (thin walls you understand) but it definitely wasn't aimed at women. But, oh yes, women desired him like you wouldn't believe! He would introduce them to me...with varied results. Link to comment
LilyXX Posted January 3, 2007 Share Posted January 3, 2007 Physically: Love the blond hair/blue eyes type, but it is not a must. Not too tall, under 5'8, wide shoulders, muscles. Personality: Caring & giving. Knows how to have fun. Positive attitude. Not a snob. Smart. Good manners. Non smoker. Career: Don't like computer geeks or academics. Business person, or someone with a hands on career, like a construction worker. Link to comment
the yang to the worlds yin Posted January 3, 2007 Share Posted January 3, 2007 Someone that feels free to speak their mind, isn't someone who will say something just to please people, someone who's realistic yet shows a wonderful optimistic side, someone with obvious and great intellect, perhaps not so much in what they know, but how they love to learn it. I guess someone like my guy. Link to comment
J6hn Posted January 3, 2007 Share Posted January 3, 2007 When she's entirely devoted to me. Dedication to me gives me an amazing feeling. Link to comment
doyathink Posted January 3, 2007 Share Posted January 3, 2007 A man with integrity. Honest... hard working.... dependable.... lovable... I'm a sucker for dark hair and brown eyes....but thats just eye candy! Link to comment
Kyoshiro Ogari Posted January 3, 2007 Share Posted January 3, 2007 If she has at least 90% of her teeth, I'm hooked. Link to comment
Reluctant Rebuilder Posted January 3, 2007 Share Posted January 3, 2007 A woman who: - is independent: someone who wants me to enhance her life, not fill a void in it - has a clear direction of what they want to do - likes to spoon when we watch movies - likes to spoon when we sleep - likes to give and receive lots of physical contact: massages, foot rubs, that sort of thing - can act silly and be ok with it - doesn't complain when I come home banged up and full of bruises after class and just want to soak in a hot bath for an hour. - likes to dress her man up and can give me good advice when we go shopping for clothes about what looks good and what doesn't - isn't interested in having kids right away (or ever for that matter) - can appreciate that all people have complicated pasts and don't make judgements or broad sweeping generalizations based on what little facts they know. I hate that. - likes to travel to interesting far away places (Amsterdam and possibly China again in 2007 and Machu Pichu in 2008 anyone??) - not too young, if the relationship turns out to be a long term thing I don't want someone who will feel like they've missed out because they were with me - agrees that a $4 coffee is not an excessive price to pay, or can at least tell the difference between an americano and regular drip brew swill - eats healthy food - is slender, fit, and exercises regularly or at least isn't afraid to get a good sweat going once in a while - likes to spend time out doors, hiking, camping, going to the beach - is reasonably comfortable with her body - doesn't have kids - non smoker is a must - has a high sex drive, and isn't shocked or scared to try new things - atheist is a plus - well read is a plus - is witty - cute accent is a double plus - is ready to talk about problems in the relationship right away before they become huge resentments and put me in my place when I'm out of line. Also isn't expecting me to come up with all the solutions, because talk isn't enough - can't be too attached to possessions: I'm a minimalist and spend most of my cash on travelling and life experiences. Leave your empty consumerism at the door. - doesn't watch a lot of TV: likes to go out, even if it's just for a walk that's about all I can think of right now. PM me right away if you know where I can find this woman. Link to comment
Baby Carrot Posted January 3, 2007 Share Posted January 3, 2007 - is independent: someone who wants me to enhance her life, not fill a void in it - isn't interested in having kids right away (or ever for that matter) - atheist is a plus - cute accent is a double plus - can't be too attached to possessions: I'm a minimalist and spend most of my cash on travelling and life experiences. Leave your empty consumerism at the door. Interesting! Link to comment
Reluctant Rebuilder Posted January 3, 2007 Share Posted January 3, 2007 Interesting! Why's that? Link to comment
Baby Carrot Posted January 3, 2007 Share Posted January 3, 2007 Why's that? Mostly about the atheist/no kids. Tooooooooooooooooo many gentlemen are so hung up on religion and babies. This is interesting and refreshing! Rock on! They should clone and export guys like you! Link to comment
Reluctant Rebuilder Posted January 3, 2007 Share Posted January 3, 2007 Mostly about the atheist/no kids. Tooooooooooooooooo many gentlemen are so hung up on religion and babies. This is interesting and refreshing! Rock on! They should clone and export guys like you! you're sweet Link to comment
TheRedQueen Posted January 3, 2007 Share Posted January 3, 2007 Atheists who have vaginas, now that's where it's at. Link to comment
Reluctant Rebuilder Posted January 3, 2007 Share Posted January 3, 2007 Atheists who have vaginas, now that's where it's at. Amen to that! Link to comment
MacGyverRI Posted January 3, 2007 Share Posted January 3, 2007 Men; what makes a woman desirable to you? Your picture would do it.... (slaps self) "Girl next door" look, size 5-12, w/ an above average brain, I'm putty after that Link to comment
MacGyverRI Posted January 3, 2007 Share Posted January 3, 2007 Tooooooooooooooooo many gentlemen are so hung up on religion and babies. I'm almost a Pagan who is willing to pay for BC pills, that isn't me! lol Link to comment
silky88 Posted January 3, 2007 Share Posted January 3, 2007 hmmm, let's see: physical: skinny, pale, not hairy, hair ranging from dark blonde to black and short/messy, any height, cute face, soft skin, clean teeth, and i am a sucker for blue eyes but any color will do. i am not at all into "manly men" -- hairiness and big muscles creep me out, as do ponytails or crew-cuts. intellectual: likes to read, educated (college or self-educated), can spell and use grammar properly, a good conversationalist, mature, a "thinker," diverse taste in the finer things (music, food, literature, wine, etc). shy is okay, but terribly insecure is a turn-off. values: not religious, cares about the environment and social issues, likes to drink, not big on exercise but big on healthy eating, eventually wants kids (but not soon), not republican, pro-choice, pro-gay marriage, not bigoted at all. relationship stuff: physically affectionate, loving, fun, playful, doesn't mind a little PDA, honest, a good communicator, faithful, likes to go out and do things, also likes quiet evenings at home. i like to give and receive a lot of attention, so i find hopeless romantics adorable and tolerate neediness better than aloofness. i don't think that this person exists... Link to comment
MacGyverRI Posted January 3, 2007 Share Posted January 3, 2007 He exists but is twice your age.... Link to comment
HurleyBabe6917 Posted January 3, 2007 Author Share Posted January 3, 2007 Your picture would do it.... (slaps self) "Girl next door" look, size 5-12, w/ an above average brain, I'm putty after that aww. well thank you. gosh, i wish more guys [especially around here] thought that. Link to comment
Baby Carrot Posted January 4, 2007 Share Posted January 4, 2007 I'm almost a Pagan who is willing to pay for BC pills, that isn't me! lol BC pills? Uh? Link to comment
MacGyverRI Posted January 4, 2007 Share Posted January 4, 2007 BC pills? Uh? It's kind of a joke answer but, BC = Birth Control pills lol Link to comment
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