Was this flirting?

[pufferfish]

This morning, a male friend of mine (who I have a crush on) tried to playfully push me into the snow. It didn't work, and he ended up wrestling me, so that we were wrapped around each other tightly and he was trying to get me into the snow. There was a lot of touching and grabbing involved.

 

For me, I wouldn't do that kind of thing to someone unless I was physically attracted to them, but maybe it's different with guys. He has never done anything this physical with me before so it kind of came out of the blue. What do you think?

[Boughs]

Sounds like he is attempting yes. Especially if you've known him for a while... but if you only just met him and he did this then perhaps not.

 

I get physical like that with a girl I've known for a while, only if I like her "in that way".

 

This could possibly mean only a hook-up though.

[Timebandit]

Without being able to read his mind, I am very confident that he has feelings for you.

 

Enjoy!

[Honey Pumpkin]

Yep, he fancies the pants off you (unless he was drunk - was he drunk???)

[luvursmile]

Yup, seems like he's interested in you.

[Mythical_Suicide]

Im going against what the others have said, its possible he has feelings for you but I have guy friends who are nothing more than friends who do that kind of stuff to me all the time."Friendly flirting" or it could be more, who knows? How long have y'all known each other?

[sharper4]

I'd say he's probably interested in you. Good luck with it!

[Markers]

I have a female friend who I'm not attracted to but who always does that kind of physical stuff. I usually end up trying to end it pretty quick.. it takes some kind of attraction to want to continue it...

[Northalius]

This morning, a male friend of mine (who I have a crush on) tried to playfully push me into the snow. It didn't work, and he ended up wrestling me, so that we were wrapped around each other tightly and he was trying to get me into the snow. There was a lot of touching and grabbing involved.

 

For me, I wouldn't do that kind of thing to someone unless I was physically attracted to them, but maybe it's different with guys. He has never done anything this physical with me before so it kind of came out of the blue. What do you think?

 

By that, it seems like he likes you in one way or another. If not romantically, then you must be very good friends. But who can know? Only he does, so maybe you should eventually ask him in one way or another. Discuss what you're feeling with him! It's the only way you'll know for sure.

 

If not now, then wait to see what he does further down the road from now. Wait a week or two, and see what happens. But, eventually, you're going to have to discuss it with him personally, if it's on your mind so much.

[pufferfish]

Thanks for the replies. I've only known him for about a month, but we've become very good friends in that time. And no, he wasn't drunk

 

I saw him again after I wrote the first post, and I tried to get back at him by pushing him into the snow too. (We're both 20, by the way, and not usually this immature.) I was climbing all over him trying to tackle him down. He definitely didn't try to stop me, and even egged it on saying "Come on, that's the best you can do?" I guess that's a good sign? He is not usually the flirtatious type, if anything a bit on the shy side. However, we are quite close and maybe he just feels very comfortable with me now. I will see how things go.

 

Thanks again for the help.

[pufferfish]

Update: he asked me to be his girlfriend last week. So I guess the answer is yes, it was flirting, haha.

[cpc28655]

I would say that is one step past flirting. Sounds like he was actually coming onto you. Good luck, lol.