ancatdubh Posted December 20, 2006 Share Posted December 20, 2006 Hi I'm a new member and I think this is a great site. Anyway my question is for the female members: When and how should a guy get an erection? During foreplay? Before his clothes are off? Just on his own from the mental excitement? Or from physical contact? Lot's of the time I don't get hard until a woman touches my penis or I do it myself, but other times it just does it as soon as we start making out? What's normal? What's preferred? Sorry for the weird question! Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted December 20, 2006 Share Posted December 20, 2006 my bf has said it best.. guys have those moment where the smallest breeze will cause them become erect. nothing is absolutely "normal", some guys become erect at the thought of things, and others it takes physical contact to become erect. 1 Link to comment
Steven1607307306 Posted December 20, 2006 Share Posted December 20, 2006 I'm not a girl or anything, but I'd have to say that there is no right/wrong time to get an erection. Just a natural thing that cannot be controlled and is activated by visual, physical, or mental stimulation. No girl is going to laugh at your for getting an erection at the "wrong time". It's not like I'd laugh at a girl if she was wet at the "wrong time" because there is none. Link to comment
whenamansloveisreal Posted December 20, 2006 Share Posted December 20, 2006 try walking on a bus in the morning and old peter decides to perk up - great! Link to comment
ancatdubh Posted December 20, 2006 Author Share Posted December 20, 2006 Thanks for the feedback - that was quick. I guess I'm not asking so much about spontaneous boners that happen for no reason. I'm talking about when you are starting to get intimate, cuddling, foreplay, etc, and you need physical stimulation to get hard, is that normal? Link to comment
Steven1607307306 Posted December 20, 2006 Share Posted December 20, 2006 Nothing wrong with that at all. I wish that's all it took for me to get hard. Physical stimulation is the only way for you to get hard? I envy you. Link to comment
whenamansloveisreal Posted December 20, 2006 Share Posted December 20, 2006 she just has to walk into the bedroom blushes Link to comment
Steven1607307306 Posted December 20, 2006 Share Posted December 20, 2006 ^^ lmao, Keep it real. I fear the day when I can't get it up. But hopefully Im ages from that point. Right now I may as well use it while I got it. :splat: Link to comment
Dako Posted December 20, 2006 Share Posted December 20, 2006 I'm 54 and little Dako can persist at the strangest times. He astonishes me. Link to comment
Boughs Posted December 20, 2006 Share Posted December 20, 2006 I'm in my early 20s, and I know what its like sometimes to not get hard until a little into the act. One girl found it weird and got turned off by me and we ended up just sleeping instead of continuing. Other girls enjoy getting me aroused. Then other times I'm hard the second I walk into my door with a girl... Everytime and everyway I have always wondered what is RIGHT... but I know that sometimes i'm just more int he mood than others. On average I'm hard before my pants are off... but the occasional few times when its not up before, I wig myself out... and usually the girls I've been with did not like that I wasn't hard yet. Link to comment
Steven1607307306 Posted December 20, 2006 Share Posted December 20, 2006 Erections are quite the mysterious occurrences. If only there was some "ON/OFF" switch... ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Link to comment
doyathink Posted December 20, 2006 Share Posted December 20, 2006 My partner seems to have one the moment he steps foot into the bedroom. I think he gets one just by thinking about it. Link to comment
Steven1607307306 Posted December 20, 2006 Share Posted December 20, 2006 Don't we all. Link to comment
whenamansloveisreal Posted December 20, 2006 Share Posted December 20, 2006 john lennon believed he could 'will' an erection at any time and made films of these failed attempts i believe yoko will have them on the market soon i remember one woman looking down at mr. plump on time and asking, 'is it strange to walk around with that thing flipping and flopping everywhere?' h'yooooooooo Link to comment
Straightj06 Posted December 20, 2006 Share Posted December 20, 2006 oh god, just sat my exams and right in the middle of the exam "TING" it started, on and off all the way through the exam killed me. This wasnt a one exam thing though, every single exam that week it happened. But in the bedroom, as soon as the door is shut i have one, ive learnt to ignore it now, my little buddy knows when a good time is on its way xx Link to comment
ancatdubh Posted December 20, 2006 Author Share Posted December 20, 2006 OK so the consensus seems to be I'm really unusual. It seems maybe this is anxiety related for me, cuz the more I've been w/ someone the sooner and more often I get hard w/o contact. It's weird tho cuz I still get erect no problem, I just need a helping hand so to speak, and staying power is no problem either. Anyone else out there like me? I thought I was 'enotalone' but maybe I am!?!?!? Link to comment
DDRFreak Posted December 21, 2006 Share Posted December 21, 2006 For me, they just kind of happen.. there are times where all i have to do is think about it and POP! there ya have him! But there are times where the little man will go on and off even in bed. Like if i'm down on her... then it'll relax a bit, and will need a little help to get ready again. Hope that helps Link to comment
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