my ex-h threw family pics away

[nikkinoe]

I'm fumed. My ex-h is moving. He sold all the furniture that he isn't going to take with him. I asked him about the family pictures and videos of our children. He said he threw them all away. I can't believe he would do that. Would any of you do this? This is crazy and it's hurting. I guess that's what he wants. Me to be hurt. This is just outrageous to me, though.

[Dako]

That's pretty low.

Is he just lying to hurt you, or is he really a sadiistic &^#&%?

[booberry]

Yeah, maybe he's keeping the photos of the kids and just told you he threw them away so that

1) it hurts you and

2) he can keep all the photos

[nikkinoe]

I've thought of that, but even that is cruel.

[booberry]

Absolutely, but pray for it. It's the lesser of two evils cause it means you might be able to get some of those photos back some day!

[AwdreeHpburn]

That's totally messed up. My husband has like 3 childhood photos for that very reason.

[Stambler]

That just sucks! Very immature (even though I burned all the cards and letters from my [soon to be] ex wife - I would NEVER do anything like that involving my child).

 

I proudly have a box FULL of everything he has ever brought home from daycare. When we split up I will be more than happy to split them and make copies of of the originals that we each don't get!

[Dako]

He has to be answerable for his actions to friends and family after the dust settles. He has to explain that to grandparents, sibs and the kids.

 

If her really did it, hanging's too good for him.

[nikkinoe]

thanks guys. Your support makes me feel better, given the circumstances. At least I have a few remaining pics at my home and other relatives homes. But, the videos I can never get back because there's none to duplicate.

[flower99]

I could & would NEVER do that.

I pray he's not stupid enough to do that, cause pictures & video's of your children growing up are irreplaceable.

I think maybe when things have cooled down between you two, the truth will come out & he still has them.

[nikkinoe]

thanks guys....I'm still fuming! God, I hope it is all a cruel joke. I'd rather it be that than have all the pics and videos truly gone. All I can do right now is just believe him.

[Siriana]

I think he's lying to hurt you.

[Aurian]

Ugh what a jerk! Its sad what some people can do out of anger and spite. Those are precious to you, and they should have been precious to him too. That seems worse than what mine did (ripped up our wedding pictures and destroyed my artwork).

[Stambler]

Nothing you do out of spite will change the way your leaving partner feels about you, other than make them dislike you even more! Geeeeeeeeeeeeeesh, people just don't get it do they!

[nikkinoe]

Yeah, since being divorced, he has always wanted me to come back. He asked if we could start going out to eat, or to a concert. I said yes before he threw away these family pics and videos. Now, I won't consider going out on "dates" with him. Funny way to try and get me back! ARRRRGGHHHHHH!!!